This boils down to unattentive parents. I have used a sling with all five of my children from birth to 3 years old and can't fathom how a parent could be so distracted not to notice the baby suffocate. I have a clear visual of their little faces at all time and can feel all the movement they make. This is not a product failure but a parenting one.
I am so happy to see that there are already posts about this ridiculous warning! I'm sad that our tax dollars are wasted employing people to spread fear. Why the headline condemming all slings? Slings have been used since the beginning of time. The one I used with my (now adult) children was truly primitive and surely would have freaked out these so called government experts. Fortunately I knew that I needed to be careful when I used it. How sad that new parents are so vulnerable and afraid to use their own judgement. 'Baby Wearing' is surely responsible for the emotional and physical well-being of WAY more babies and young children the the 7 who were cited in this move to condemn a wonderful parenting style.
I wish this article and others were more specific that the problem is BAG SLINGS. The problem isn't inattentive parents. Rather, it is impossible to adjust slings like the Infantino Sling Rider and Eddie Bauer to safely avoid the chin to chest position and they don't work with the natural body structure of either parent or child. SAFE carriers like ring slings, mei tais (like babyhawk), wraps, and soft structured carriers like the ergo allow the baby to be placed more upright and allow the parent to have constant feedback from the baby. Bag slings don't allow for those kind of adjustments and feedback. Baby wearing is amazing, and I wouldn't trade the hours and hours we have spent wearing our daughter for anything, but unsafe BAG SLINGS need to be pulled from the market. Babies have died when the product was used exactly as specified by attentive parents--the risk is a silent and deadly one.
amy-1672060 wrote "Slings have been used since the beginning of time."
So what? Many child-rearing practices, such as drowning unwanted children, beating them while eliminating effective discipline through spanking, selling children, employing children, etc. Even swaddling is a remnant of the ages in which it was more convenient to silence a child.
Hey, I'm a father of two. The sling in the picture is a dumb design. There are others that work, and I welcome some scrutiny so that I do not have to waste money on worthless baby products. We rely on reviews for washing machines and cell phones. Why not baby products? The choices are dazzling and daunting, and most of these baby products are completely not necessary.
I beg to differ on your comment about swaddling. There is evidence that very young babies (newborns in particular) prefer to be swaddled b/c it mimics the environment in the mother's womb.
There are plenty of risks to your new baby that are way more important than this. Save your fears for things that are actually likely to injure your child. In other words, don't spend a lot of your time obsessing over minute risks when there are plenty of high risk actions that you probably won't think twice about.
true, there are other risks, but if I can minimize one of them....I'm happy!
I was in the store and was just thinking to myself that i didn't think the baby would be comfortable in one of the 'slings'...
I understand that one should pay more attention, but if you're used to your baby being sleep and not moving for a certain amount of time, you probably would not look down as often. A baby can sufficate in minutes...
babies are very comfortable in the sling since it mimics the feeling and shape of the womb. Parents tend to think that babies will be comfortable positioned how adults are comfortable, which is not true for newborns. They love being bunched up close to mom. Sling safety is actually incredibly easy.. just glance down and baby is fine. I never had a problem letting time slip away and not seeing what the baby was doing.. my baby was properly adjusted in the sling and I saw their faces every few seconds without even trying to check... they just sort of stay in your peripheral vision if you wear the sling high enough.
You can use a sling with no problem. The problem is the INFANTINO SLINGRIDER. It causes suffocation, not to mention how extremely uncomfortable it is for mom to wear. Look into SleepingBabyProductions.net, Mayawrap.com, Ergobabycarrier.com, becobabycarrier.com for some GOOD and COMFORTABLE baby carriers.
really, why? check out the Moby wrap. If you are a first time mom, you are going to be overwhelmed with the demands of a new baby and your old life. The Moby is a lifesaver, and every mom who owns one will tell you. The baby fits snuggly, and you can look down and right on your chest is your baby, they move and wiggle and breathe and you can feel it all, there's no way you wouldn't notice your baby suffocating. And it gives you both of your hands during shopping and chores and keeps the baby gently rocked so you have less worry of a screaming unhappy baby while you're trying to do other things. Like Carrie said, it's all about that specific brand, there are a lot of other types of slings, ring slings, wraps, pockets, mei tais, that are based off how women have been carrying babies for hundreds of years and not a mass produced piece of crap trying to get in on the babywearing action.
Glad to help. An even better site I should have mentioned is www.thebabywearer.com which has a HUGE selection of baby carriers that you can look through, research, watch videos of, etc., to choose what will work best for you. The site also goes into great detail about WHY certain carriers are unsafe or not recommended, what stage is best for what type, etc.
Please don't let these idiots scare you. It's not in any shape or form unsafe to carry your baby in a sling. If you are a neglectful, unattentive parent who doesn't care about their child, then I wouldn't recommend having children in the first place. The reason the sling was invented was the fact that it reminds the child of being in the womb. the babies who have suffocated from the use of these is purely the parents fault, not the design of the sling. Its funny how every time something bad happens as a result of misuse of a product, people immediately turn around and blame someone else for it even though it was the result of their own neglect. This is America. People sue for the most ridiculous things. there are more and more dumb people in the US now more than ever especially when stupid celebrities can make more money than someone with a more honorable job, like say a Doctor? yea.
Don't be afraid of wearing your baby. Just be smart about it. Baby wraps are the best thing that could have happened to both mommies and babies in this day and age. Wraps help your back and keep baby happy and close to you. They truly are incredible. Don't miss out because of one really bad design. If you want to learn more about wraps visit my website at http://migowrap.web.officelive.com
Congratulations on the coming birth of your child. Embrace motherhood...wear your baby!
The sling my son and daughter in law use keeps the baby facing toward the person using it and the baby's head is clear because the sling keeps the baby tipped back slightly. My granddaughter just loves it because she can see her caregiver at all times and enjoys the constant movement.
I returned an infantino sling like the one mentioned in the article, about 3 months ago, for the very reason they mention; my tiny infant was all curled up on herself, and I couldn't see how she could breathe in there. Or, her face would be mashed into my stomach. I got a baby carrier that sits on my hip and holds her upright while supporting her head, and she loves that. Especially now that she is older, she can look around and see what is going on around us.
I have seen other mothers that can use these with no problem and seem comfortable, kind of like wearing a slouchy purse. They might be better for older babies (not newborns or premies). Or it might just depend on your particular baby. But definitely requires parental attention.
The Infantino Slingrider is the problem. There are many other slings that are perfectly safe and insanely more comfortable. I'm glad you returned that ridiculous Slingrider! One less risk of a baby death.
Maybe I'm a weirdo, but I hated my sling and almost never used it. Come to think of it, I don't remember anyone else I know using one either...*shrugs shoulders*...
I LOVED to hold my son in my arms...Oh well, to each their own...
It was 12 years ago, so I don't even remember what type it was. As I said, "I don't even remember seeing a single person using a sling, ever"...Must be some new 'craze', However, my sister in law had my niece two years ago and she didn't use one either...*shrugs shoulders, again*
Thanks, I've learned long ago to do what works for me, I'm much happier that way...:)
The most important thing is keeping your baby close to you, whether you use your hands or a sling. Babies are born from the womb where they were constantly carried-100% of the time. That's what they are used to and that's what they expect. If that closeness is continued, they grow to feel loved and connected rather than isolated and afraid.
While I agree that holding / touching / interacting with a baby is important, I do have to say that baby-wearing / carrying 100% of the time is not necessary for bonding or creating a loving and secure child.
I never used a sling or carrier of any sort. My daughter was in her stroller while we were out and a baby papasan chair while we were at home (I work from home, so she'd sit on the papasan on my bed while I sat at my desk). Now please don't mistake me, I DID hold her and carry her and love on her. But nowhere near close to 100% of the time. Not even 60% of the time probably. She also slept in her own bassinet / crib from the get-go. And at four, she's secure, loving, happy and intelligent.
I think like with anything in this world, user-error is to blame as much as anything else. However, I can imagine with a sling it can be easy to assume your child is sleeping, and get focused on something else (a conversation, a book, browsing a clothing rack, whatever) and not notice your child suffocating. I think a warning is definitely merited because some people are just too dopey to take it seriously if it's anything less than a big warning. But each person will have to decide for themselves if they're comfortable with using a sling.
But let's not turn this into "if you use a sling you're a baby killer" and "if you don't use a sling your child will not bond to you and will be sad". (not saying the person I'm replying to did this - but I can see the conversation deteriorating, that's all I mean)
I just want to chime in and say that "babywearing" does not mean carrying your child 100% of the time or even 60% of the time. Babywearers use slings and other carriers as parenting tools to help them soothe their children, be close to their children, and to accomplish things that you can't do as easily while holding a baby. Having baby close (in arms or in a sling) is undeniably a wonderful way to bond. But that is not the only reason to use a sling. It is a convenience that allows you do many things while also being attentive to your baby. For centuries (and longer) It has enabled woman in places like Indonesia to continue working hard, but take care of their baby because while baby is tied close to them in the traditional selendang. There are so many other cultures that have relied on "babywearing" for longer than recorded history.
I would be confident in saying you will not find even one self proclaimed "babywearer" who "wears" 100% of the time. Even if you only use your sling in the grocery store to ease your shopping experience and keep baby out of that nasty germ infested cart, you are a baby wearer (as defined by babywearers) even if you don't know it! You (general you) understand the benefit of a sling as a tool to help you through the day. Or perhaps you don't need the sling because your baby is perfectly happy playing on the floor when you need to be getting something done, or sitting happily in the swing. Fine, then it's a tool that you can live without. And that is fine too. That is what it is all about.
Personally, having and knowing how to use a sling has made me a much better parent. It's a tool I wouldn't not want to do without.
Stay away from BAG SLINGS. There are plenty of other options that are safe, attractive, and comfortable.
I used one of the slings with my last born who is approaching 30 years old. It was so great-- much better than leaving him unattended in his bassinet while cleaning a commercial property. He was close to me and would sleep while I ran a vacuum cleaner. Never once did it cross my mind that he would suffocate. Get real! When he was an infant it was so much easier to put him in a sling when I was grocery shopping as a carrier took up too much room in a cart. I think that they are great. Perhaps in today's world the parent is not paying close enough attention or the sling is not adjusted properly to contour with the body of the parent?
This is a problem precisely because it is impossible to adjust slings like the Infantino Sling Rider and Eddie Bauer to safely avoid the chin to chest position and they don't work with the natural body structure of either parent or child. SAFE carriers like ring slings, mei tais (like babyhawk), wraps, and soft structured carriers like the ergo allow the baby to be placed more upright and allow the parent to have constant feedback from the baby. Bag slings don't allow for those kind of adjustments and feedback.
I loved my sling and used it with both kids, no problems. You need to be aware and attentive with an infant (especially a newborn who is more at risk for suffocation from not having neck strength yet) no matter where you place the child. With the sling, the baby is right under your line of vision, you just glance down frequently to check the baby and make sure the material doesn't go near the face and the baby isn't too warm.
When my kids were able to sit supported, which doesn't take long at all, they can be propped up so their little head is entirely out of the sling anyway.
oh, the sling that I used was from Balboa Baby (you can find it on the Dr. Sears website) and is made of super light material (feels much like linen), so it was ideal for the baby not getting too warm (in appropriate normal indoor type temperatures). Loved it.. super easy to adjust and I could still use it when he was over a year old, I just slung it down by my hip and he sat in it on my side. My back didn't hurt either!
These sorts of slings which can be adjusted aren't the problem---it's bag slings like the Infantino Sling Rider and Eddie Bauer b/c there is no way to safely adjust the carrier. The Balboa isn't as adjustable as I might like, but it is still possible to avoid the chin to chest position that poses the risk with careful placement. With the bag slings, there is no way to avoid that position.
I had bought a sling in the beginning...I would always look down because my daughter would always seemed to be curled up and I was afraid she was not getting enough air to breathe properly. I took back the sling and purchased the upright carrier. I thought it was best to follow my intuition...which fortunately according to this article was correct. So sad!!!!!
I have to agree with you. I had a cloth sling, which had no warnings on it, but I too was concerned about the ability of my son to breathe, and NO, I am not an inattentive mother. I had an upright sling, and my son and I both LOVED it. He is now school aged, and he still loves to cuddle. I am glad I followed my own instincts!
Intresting story. However, If toliet paper causes a rash on my hindy, will we spend countless money to study it and eventually outlaw toliet paper. Geez, just issue a warning and be done with it.
The types of slings that are a problem are BAG SLINGS (Infantino). A regular ring sling, that is made from cloth is not a problem. You should, of course, always double check baby's position and monitor the baby while babywearing. However, it's not correct to say that all slings or baby carriers are affected by this safety warning. This article is lacking SERIOUS details and poor reporting (and probably not that great of a gov't report).
I've worn all 6 of my children with no problems. Common. Sense.
Well said. I'm also an avid babywearer and have done insane amounts of research and experimenting to find the right kind of carriers. The Bag Sling, in my opinion, should be called the Death Sling.
This warning is ONLY for the Slingrider!!!! I really hate how VAGUE this article is! All slings are NOT the same, all baby carriers are NOT the same. Please don't be afraid of purchasing a sling or other carrier from a REPUTABLE company. Please visit www.thebabywearer.com for more info on the varieties of baby carriers.
I'm happy to see this getting more attention, but I wish the mainstream media was a bit more clear that it is BAG slings that are the problem b/c they force the baby into a chin to chest position w/ no way to safely adjust the carrier. Safe choices include those where it is possible to adjust the depth of the pouch like ring slings and where upright, tummy-to-tummy holds (the safest alternative) are encouraged like wraps, mei tais, soft structured carriers. The baby wearing safety page on facebook is filled with great pictures of how to safely position your newborn. And to be clear, the problem with the bag slings is that there is NO WAY for even the most attentive parent to avoid the risk--the risk is a very silent and deadly one. The babies who have died were placed according to the product's instructions--insert baby and walk around. A baby died locally while on a brief shopping trip with both parents who did check the baby. However, the bag slings don't make it easy for parents to check on the baby and be in tune with them, and a tiny baby won't make sounds of distress as the breathing problem often happens during sleep. With SAFE carriers (and there are so many!), you can kiss the top of baby's head and feel their breath against you. There are so many benefits to SAFELY wearing your baby. It has been one of the great pleasures of parenting for me to wear my baby, and I'm so grateful to resources like the nonprofit website thebabywearer.com for showing the huge array of safe carriers out there.
Babywearers are the same morons that overwhelmingly practice co-sleeping. Co-sleeping KILLS hundreds of babies per year in the US. This is NOT the occasional Saturday morning snuggle with your two year old - NO, these people actually place one and two day old NEWBORNS directly into bed with them (apparently a crib beside the bed does not suffice). These same beds contain blankets, sheets, pillows, head boards, exhausted new parents, etc. They claim this can be done safely by not drinking or using drugs, removing blankets and avoiding co-sleeping when over tired (what new parent isn't over tired?!), but statistics have proven them dead wrong. Why would anyone even take the chace?! These same mothers often boast nursing WHILE SLEEPING. What?! That's insane! A mother could easily suffocate her own baby with her own breast. Any respectable parenting/breastfeeding book advocates against this. Bottom line - these people are stupid and their stupidity permeates many areas of their "parenting style." These practices are stupid and undoubtedly dangerous. These granola want-to-be's need to get over this insistent need to constantly "bond" and start putting their babies first. Keeping them ALIVE is more important than "bonding" 24/7. The attachment parenting EPIDEMIC needs to stop and these "greenies" need to control themselves and their idiotic parenting concepts.
I'm simply stating that I'm not surprised that people like yourselves participate in SEVERAL dangerous activities for the sake of "your cause." I'm also not surprised that you're defending other LIKE products either. The Dr. at the end of the article says that babies should be placed UPRIGHT in a sling. I rarely see people carrying upright unless they're using a Baby Bjorn...which many babywearers hate. You people come out of the woodwork when babies die due to co-sleeping and are plastered all over the news. You defend your own practices, claiming you "do it safe," just as you're doing here. Non upright slings = death. Co-sleeping (not a crib beside the bed) = death. Attachment prarenting praciteces both in MOST cases...don't even deny it They're very relative matters. They're dangerous and stupid yet will be defended by what is, thank God, the MINORITY of ignorant women.
And I'm not a troll just because I see "A", see "B" and can formulate "C". I'm also not a troll because I disagree with almost everybody on this board and choose to speak out about it. That just makes me DIFFERENT and arguably more intelligent. Hardly any of you have written about true remorse for the lives lost and the lives yet to be lost. Nope, it's all about how you'll never be a statistic yourselves. It's disgusting that you can't see the bigger picture beyond your own pathetic lives, and that you come to a thread about DEAD BABIES to defend the very act that killed them. Babywearers/attachment parents KILL babies in VARIOUS ways everyday; this story just bolsters that argument. Someone needs to speak out about that here. And I hate to tell you, sweetheart, but there are millions more that find this crap just as ridiculous as I do.
wow. it is very sad that others will use this as an opportunity to lash out at babywearers and co-sleeping families. we each make our own choices about how we want to live out our lives. as long as it is done with love, there should be little to no room for judgement.
the issue here is the design of the sling, making it very difficult for the parent to be able to see or feel what is going on with the baby. with a properly designed sling or baby carrier, the baby will be snug against your body where you will feel and often hear the breathing patterns (ah, such a sweet sound) of your little one. typically you want your baby in a position high enough to be able to kiss the top of their head. this keeps the two of you close and in tune with each other. with a baby in a bag sling, this just isn't possible.
my favorite sling is the Hava sling, http://www.nurturedfamily.com/detail.aspx?ID=699. it is easy to adjust and allows the baby to be carried in a variety of very safe positions. the sling comes with a great DVD that demonstrates how to properly use the sling. another variation of this same sling is the Sling Ezee, http://www.nurturedfamily.com/detail.aspx?ID=167. and it is just as easy to use and safe for baby.
it is important to remember that all slings and baby carriers are not "bag slings". there are just a few of those (bag slings) out there and all slings should not be grouped into one category. really the design is what is bad, not the idea of a sling or babywearing.
as others have mentioned, www.babywearers.com is a great resource for parents to learn more about babywearing and talk with others about any concerns or issues that you may have.
Kate K. ... any chance you feel guilt for not holding your child(ren) enough? Way to lash out on an entire group of people in a comment section for something completely unrelated. Not all granola-loving, clothing diapering, organic eating, vegan, babywearing, stay at home mama's practice co-sleeping. Don't generalize people the same way I'm not going to assume you neglected to provide your child(ren) with the affection they need because you put them in strollers/chairs instead of holding them.
My daughter has been in some form of a carrier since she was 2 days old. I did research on the different types of carriers and made an EDUCATED decision on what to choose. We have never had one issue. The type of carrier used in the deaths of this poor little baby has been known to be a bad one for quite some time. It's heartbreaking it has took several little lives to bring light to how unsafe certain "popular" carriers are.
I agree with unknown make an educated decision and use some common sense. The origianl article is chosen to bring awareness and warn parents of the bag like sling. I do think the article is a little too generalized. Not all slings are equal, you should find one for your body type and your baby size. This is not a new "greenie" idea Kate. Slings have been around forever. People shouldnt abolish the idea of a sling just because some poor designs are out. This is just like all the crib recalls, because some babys died that doesnt mean all cribs are bad, the parents are bad or you shouldnt put your kid in one, like the sling if yours wasnt recalled you should just take the extra precaution to make sure yours is safe and provide extra monitoring. Not everything works for everybody but my jellybean sling is a lifesaver to me. Every baby item has its risks.
I never felt comfortable having my baby in any slings. It does not feel safe and with all the other alternatives out there I fail to see why women would prefer slings. For me it was simply useless and too risky.
The slings that were recalled always looked unsafe to me. I cringed seeing a baby pretty much folded up in them and hanging down at mom or dad's waist. That is NOT how you baby wear and it's a shame they are tarnishing all slings. Baby should be up on your chest and always visible. I learned loads about various slings at http://www.ababycarrier.com. When practiced safely, babywearing is an invaluable tool and amazing experience.
The slings that were recalled always looked unsafe to me. I cringed seeing a baby pretty much folded up in them and hanging down at mom or dad's waist. That is NOT how you baby wear and it's a shame they are tarnishing all slings. Baby should be up on your chest and always visible. When practiced safely, babywearing is an invaluable tool and amazing experience.
This boils down to unattentive parents. I have used a sling with all five of my children from birth to 3 years old and can't fathom how a parent could be so distracted not to notice the baby suffocate. I have a clear visual of their little faces at all time and can feel all the movement they make. This is not a product failure but a parenting one.
I am so happy to see that there are already posts about this ridiculous warning! I'm sad that our tax dollars are wasted employing people to spread fear. Why the headline condemming all slings? Slings have been used since the beginning of time. The one I used with my (now adult) children was truly primitive and surely would have freaked out these so called government experts. Fortunately I knew that I needed to be careful when I used it. How sad that new parents are so vulnerable and afraid to use their own judgement. 'Baby Wearing' is surely responsible for the emotional and physical well-being of WAY more babies and young children the the 7 who were cited in this move to condemn a wonderful parenting style.
I wish this article and others were more specific that the problem is BAG SLINGS. The problem isn't inattentive parents. Rather, it is impossible to adjust slings like the Infantino Sling Rider and Eddie Bauer to safely avoid the chin to chest position and they don't work with the natural body structure of either parent or child. SAFE carriers like ring slings, mei tais (like babyhawk), wraps, and soft structured carriers like the ergo allow the baby to be placed more upright and allow the parent to have constant feedback from the baby. Bag slings don't allow for those kind of adjustments and feedback. Baby wearing is amazing, and I wouldn't trade the hours and hours we have spent wearing our daughter for anything, but unsafe BAG SLINGS need to be pulled from the market. Babies have died when the product was used exactly as specified by attentive parents--the risk is a silent and deadly one.
amy-1672060 wrote "Slings have been used since the beginning of time."
So what? Many child-rearing practices, such as drowning unwanted children, beating them while eliminating effective discipline through spanking, selling children, employing children, etc. Even swaddling is a remnant of the ages in which it was more convenient to silence a child.
Hey, I'm a father of two. The sling in the picture is a dumb design. There are others that work, and I welcome some scrutiny so that I do not have to waste money on worthless baby products. We rely on reviews for washing machines and cell phones. Why not baby products? The choices are dazzling and daunting, and most of these baby products are completely not necessary.
I beg to differ on your comment about swaddling. There is evidence that very young babies (newborns in particular) prefer to be swaddled b/c it mimics the environment in the mother's womb.
i'm expecting my 1st in the next 3 weeks.....I just told my best friend that i didn't want one of these....I'm just to scared!
There are plenty of risks to your new baby that are way more important than this. Save your fears for things that are actually likely to injure your child. In other words, don't spend a lot of your time obsessing over minute risks when there are plenty of high risk actions that you probably won't think twice about.
true, there are other risks, but if I can minimize one of them....I'm happy!
I was in the store and was just thinking to myself that i didn't think the baby would be comfortable in one of the 'slings'...
I understand that one should pay more attention, but if you're used to your baby being sleep and not moving for a certain amount of time, you probably would not look down as often. A baby can sufficate in minutes...
babies are very comfortable in the sling since it mimics the feeling and shape of the womb. Parents tend to think that babies will be comfortable positioned how adults are comfortable, which is not true for newborns. They love being bunched up close to mom. Sling safety is actually incredibly easy.. just glance down and baby is fine. I never had a problem letting time slip away and not seeing what the baby was doing.. my baby was properly adjusted in the sling and I saw their faces every few seconds without even trying to check... they just sort of stay in your peripheral vision if you wear the sling high enough.
You can use a sling with no problem. The problem is the INFANTINO SLINGRIDER. It causes suffocation, not to mention how extremely uncomfortable it is for mom to wear. Look into SleepingBabyProductions.net, Mayawrap.com, Ergobabycarrier.com, becobabycarrier.com for some GOOD and COMFORTABLE baby carriers.
Thanks Carrie!
really, why? check out the Moby wrap. If you are a first time mom, you are going to be overwhelmed with the demands of a new baby and your old life. The Moby is a lifesaver, and every mom who owns one will tell you. The baby fits snuggly, and you can look down and right on your chest is your baby, they move and wiggle and breathe and you can feel it all, there's no way you wouldn't notice your baby suffocating. And it gives you both of your hands during shopping and chores and keeps the baby gently rocked so you have less worry of a screaming unhappy baby while you're trying to do other things. Like Carrie said, it's all about that specific brand, there are a lot of other types of slings, ring slings, wraps, pockets, mei tais, that are based off how women have been carrying babies for hundreds of years and not a mass produced piece of crap trying to get in on the babywearing action.
Glad to help. An even better site I should have mentioned is www.thebabywearer.com which has a HUGE selection of baby carriers that you can look through, research, watch videos of, etc., to choose what will work best for you. The site also goes into great detail about WHY certain carriers are unsafe or not recommended, what stage is best for what type, etc.
Please don't let these idiots scare you. It's not in any shape or form unsafe to carry your baby in a sling. If you are a neglectful, unattentive parent who doesn't care about their child, then I wouldn't recommend having children in the first place. The reason the sling was invented was the fact that it reminds the child of being in the womb. the babies who have suffocated from the use of these is purely the parents fault, not the design of the sling. Its funny how every time something bad happens as a result of misuse of a product, people immediately turn around and blame someone else for it even though it was the result of their own neglect. This is America. People sue for the most ridiculous things. there are more and more dumb people in the US now more than ever especially when stupid celebrities can make more money than someone with a more honorable job, like say a Doctor? yea.
Don't be afraid of wearing your baby. Just be smart about it. Baby wraps are the best thing that could have happened to both mommies and babies in this day and age. Wraps help your back and keep baby happy and close to you. They truly are incredible. Don't miss out because of one really bad design. If you want to learn more about wraps visit my website at http://migowrap.web.officelive.com
Congratulations on the coming birth of your child. Embrace motherhood...wear your baby!
The sling my son and daughter in law use keeps the baby facing toward the person using it and the baby's head is clear because the sling keeps the baby tipped back slightly. My granddaughter just loves it because she can see her caregiver at all times and enjoys the constant movement.
I returned an infantino sling like the one mentioned in the article, about 3 months ago, for the very reason they mention; my tiny infant was all curled up on herself, and I couldn't see how she could breathe in there. Or, her face would be mashed into my stomach. I got a baby carrier that sits on my hip and holds her upright while supporting her head, and she loves that. Especially now that she is older, she can look around and see what is going on around us.
I have seen other mothers that can use these with no problem and seem comfortable, kind of like wearing a slouchy purse. They might be better for older babies (not newborns or premies). Or it might just depend on your particular baby. But definitely requires parental attention.
The Infantino Slingrider is the problem. There are many other slings that are perfectly safe and insanely more comfortable. I'm glad you returned that ridiculous Slingrider! One less risk of a baby death.
Could the weight of the mother have anything to do with the problem?
No!
in other words
watch what the heck you are doing and pay attention to your child
freakin DUH!!!
Maybe I'm a weirdo, but I hated my sling and almost never used it. Come to think of it, I don't remember anyone else I know using one either...*shrugs shoulders*...
I LOVED to hold my son in my arms...Oh well, to each their own...
You may have had a lousy carrier. But even if you didn't, not everyone likes it and not every baby likes it. Do what works for you. :)
It was 12 years ago, so I don't even remember what type it was. As I said, "I don't even remember seeing a single person using a sling, ever"...Must be some new 'craze', However, my sister in law had my niece two years ago and she didn't use one either...*shrugs shoulders, again*
Thanks, I've learned long ago to do what works for me, I'm much happier that way...:)
The most important thing is keeping your baby close to you, whether you use your hands or a sling. Babies are born from the womb where they were constantly carried-100% of the time. That's what they are used to and that's what they expect. If that closeness is continued, they grow to feel loved and connected rather than isolated and afraid.
While I agree that holding / touching / interacting with a baby is important, I do have to say that baby-wearing / carrying 100% of the time is not necessary for bonding or creating a loving and secure child.
I never used a sling or carrier of any sort. My daughter was in her stroller while we were out and a baby papasan chair while we were at home (I work from home, so she'd sit on the papasan on my bed while I sat at my desk). Now please don't mistake me, I DID hold her and carry her and love on her. But nowhere near close to 100% of the time. Not even 60% of the time probably. She also slept in her own bassinet / crib from the get-go. And at four, she's secure, loving, happy and intelligent.
I think like with anything in this world, user-error is to blame as much as anything else. However, I can imagine with a sling it can be easy to assume your child is sleeping, and get focused on something else (a conversation, a book, browsing a clothing rack, whatever) and not notice your child suffocating. I think a warning is definitely merited because some people are just too dopey to take it seriously if it's anything less than a big warning. But each person will have to decide for themselves if they're comfortable with using a sling.
But let's not turn this into "if you use a sling you're a baby killer" and "if you don't use a sling your child will not bond to you and will be sad". (not saying the person I'm replying to did this - but I can see the conversation deteriorating, that's all I mean)
The problem is THIS SLING. It's not user error, it's manufacturer error. (Oh, what I would rather say about it....)
As for your other point of not turning this into a who-parents-better, I agree. Truly, to each their own. You have to do what works for your family.
I just want to chime in and say that "babywearing" does not mean carrying your child 100% of the time or even 60% of the time. Babywearers use slings and other carriers as parenting tools to help them soothe their children, be close to their children, and to accomplish things that you can't do as easily while holding a baby. Having baby close (in arms or in a sling) is undeniably a wonderful way to bond. But that is not the only reason to use a sling. It is a convenience that allows you do many things while also being attentive to your baby. For centuries (and longer) It has enabled woman in places like Indonesia to continue working hard, but take care of their baby because while baby is tied close to them in the traditional selendang. There are so many other cultures that have relied on "babywearing" for longer than recorded history.
I would be confident in saying you will not find even one self proclaimed "babywearer" who "wears" 100% of the time. Even if you only use your sling in the grocery store to ease your shopping experience and keep baby out of that nasty germ infested cart, you are a baby wearer (as defined by babywearers) even if you don't know it! You (general you) understand the benefit of a sling as a tool to help you through the day. Or perhaps you don't need the sling because your baby is perfectly happy playing on the floor when you need to be getting something done, or sitting happily in the swing. Fine, then it's a tool that you can live without. And that is fine too. That is what it is all about.
Personally, having and knowing how to use a sling has made me a much better parent. It's a tool I wouldn't not want to do without.
Stay away from BAG SLINGS. There are plenty of other options that are safe, attractive, and comfortable.
I used one of the slings with my last born who is approaching 30 years old. It was so great-- much better than leaving him unattended in his bassinet while cleaning a commercial property. He was close to me and would sleep while I ran a vacuum cleaner. Never once did it cross my mind that he would suffocate. Get real! When he was an infant it was so much easier to put him in a sling when I was grocery shopping as a carrier took up too much room in a cart. I think that they are great. Perhaps in today's world the parent is not paying close enough attention or the sling is not adjusted properly to contour with the body of the parent?
This is a problem precisely because it is impossible to adjust slings like the Infantino Sling Rider and Eddie Bauer to safely avoid the chin to chest position and they don't work with the natural body structure of either parent or child. SAFE carriers like ring slings, mei tais (like babyhawk), wraps, and soft structured carriers like the ergo allow the baby to be placed more upright and allow the parent to have constant feedback from the baby. Bag slings don't allow for those kind of adjustments and feedback.
I loved my sling and used it with both kids, no problems. You need to be aware and attentive with an infant (especially a newborn who is more at risk for suffocation from not having neck strength yet) no matter where you place the child. With the sling, the baby is right under your line of vision, you just glance down frequently to check the baby and make sure the material doesn't go near the face and the baby isn't too warm.
When my kids were able to sit supported, which doesn't take long at all, they can be propped up so their little head is entirely out of the sling anyway.
oh, the sling that I used was from Balboa Baby (you can find it on the Dr. Sears website) and is made of super light material (feels much like linen), so it was ideal for the baby not getting too warm (in appropriate normal indoor type temperatures). Loved it.. super easy to adjust and I could still use it when he was over a year old, I just slung it down by my hip and he sat in it on my side. My back didn't hurt either!
These sorts of slings which can be adjusted aren't the problem---it's bag slings like the Infantino Sling Rider and Eddie Bauer b/c there is no way to safely adjust the carrier. The Balboa isn't as adjustable as I might like, but it is still possible to avoid the chin to chest position that poses the risk with careful placement. With the bag slings, there is no way to avoid that position.
I had bought a sling in the beginning...I would always look down because my daughter would always seemed to be curled up and I was afraid she was not getting enough air to breathe properly. I took back the sling and purchased the upright carrier. I thought it was best to follow my intuition...which fortunately according to this article was correct. So sad!!!!!
I have to agree with you. I had a cloth sling, which had no warnings on it, but I too was concerned about the ability of my son to breathe, and NO, I am not an inattentive mother. I had an upright sling, and my son and I both LOVED it. He is now school aged, and he still loves to cuddle. I am glad I followed my own instincts!
Intresting story. However, If toliet paper causes a rash on my hindy, will we spend countless money to study it and eventually outlaw toliet paper. Geez, just issue a warning and be done with it.
The types of slings that are a problem are BAG SLINGS (Infantino). A regular ring sling, that is made from cloth is not a problem. You should, of course, always double check baby's position and monitor the baby while babywearing. However, it's not correct to say that all slings or baby carriers are affected by this safety warning. This article is lacking SERIOUS details and poor reporting (and probably not that great of a gov't report).
I've worn all 6 of my children with no problems. Common. Sense.
Well said. I'm also an avid babywearer and have done insane amounts of research and experimenting to find the right kind of carriers. The Bag Sling, in my opinion, should be called the Death Sling.
This warning is ONLY for the Slingrider!!!! I really hate how VAGUE this article is! All slings are NOT the same, all baby carriers are NOT the same. Please don't be afraid of purchasing a sling or other carrier from a REPUTABLE company. Please visit www.thebabywearer.com for more info on the varieties of baby carriers.
I'm happy to see this getting more attention, but I wish the mainstream media was a bit more clear that it is BAG slings that are the problem b/c they force the baby into a chin to chest position w/ no way to safely adjust the carrier. Safe choices include those where it is possible to adjust the depth of the pouch like ring slings and where upright, tummy-to-tummy holds (the safest alternative) are encouraged like wraps, mei tais, soft structured carriers. The baby wearing safety page on facebook is filled with great pictures of how to safely position your newborn. And to be clear, the problem with the bag slings is that there is NO WAY for even the most attentive parent to avoid the risk--the risk is a very silent and deadly one. The babies who have died were placed according to the product's instructions--insert baby and walk around. A baby died locally while on a brief shopping trip with both parents who did check the baby. However, the bag slings don't make it easy for parents to check on the baby and be in tune with them, and a tiny baby won't make sounds of distress as the breathing problem often happens during sleep. With SAFE carriers (and there are so many!), you can kiss the top of baby's head and feel their breath against you. There are so many benefits to SAFELY wearing your baby. It has been one of the great pleasures of parenting for me to wear my baby, and I'm so grateful to resources like the nonprofit website thebabywearer.com for showing the huge array of safe carriers out there.
Babywearers are the same morons that overwhelmingly practice co-sleeping. Co-sleeping KILLS hundreds of babies per year in the US. This is NOT the occasional Saturday morning snuggle with your two year old - NO, these people actually place one and two day old NEWBORNS directly into bed with them (apparently a crib beside the bed does not suffice). These same beds contain blankets, sheets, pillows, head boards, exhausted new parents, etc. They claim this can be done safely by not drinking or using drugs, removing blankets and avoiding co-sleeping when over tired (what new parent isn't over tired?!), but statistics have proven them dead wrong. Why would anyone even take the chace?! These same mothers often boast nursing WHILE SLEEPING. What?! That's insane! A mother could easily suffocate her own baby with her own breast. Any respectable parenting/breastfeeding book advocates against this. Bottom line - these people are stupid and their stupidity permeates many areas of their "parenting style." These practices are stupid and undoubtedly dangerous. These granola want-to-be's need to get over this insistent need to constantly "bond" and start putting their babies first. Keeping them ALIVE is more important than "bonding" 24/7. The attachment parenting EPIDEMIC needs to stop and these "greenies" need to control themselves and their idiotic parenting concepts.
This warning is about bag slings, not co-sleeping. Not all people who use slings are co-sleepers. Completely different and unrelated topic.
I'm trying to remember not to feed the ignorant troll... *eyes rolling*
I'm simply stating that I'm not surprised that people like yourselves participate in SEVERAL dangerous activities for the sake of "your cause." I'm also not surprised that you're defending other LIKE products either. The Dr. at the end of the article says that babies should be placed UPRIGHT in a sling. I rarely see people carrying upright unless they're using a Baby Bjorn...which many babywearers hate. You people come out of the woodwork when babies die due to co-sleeping and are plastered all over the news. You defend your own practices, claiming you "do it safe," just as you're doing here. Non upright slings = death. Co-sleeping (not a crib beside the bed) = death. Attachment prarenting praciteces both in MOST cases...don't even deny it They're very relative matters. They're dangerous and stupid yet will be defended by what is, thank God, the MINORITY of ignorant women.
And I'm not a troll just because I see "A", see "B" and can formulate "C". I'm also not a troll because I disagree with almost everybody on this board and choose to speak out about it. That just makes me DIFFERENT and arguably more intelligent. Hardly any of you have written about true remorse for the lives lost and the lives yet to be lost. Nope, it's all about how you'll never be a statistic yourselves. It's disgusting that you can't see the bigger picture beyond your own pathetic lives, and that you come to a thread about DEAD BABIES to defend the very act that killed them. Babywearers/attachment parents KILL babies in VARIOUS ways everyday; this story just bolsters that argument. Someone needs to speak out about that here. And I hate to tell you, sweetheart, but there are millions more that find this crap just as ridiculous as I do.
wow. it is very sad that others will use this as an opportunity to lash out at babywearers and co-sleeping families. we each make our own choices about how we want to live out our lives. as long as it is done with love, there should be little to no room for judgement.
the issue here is the design of the sling, making it very difficult for the parent to be able to see or feel what is going on with the baby. with a properly designed sling or baby carrier, the baby will be snug against your body where you will feel and often hear the breathing patterns (ah, such a sweet sound) of your little one. typically you want your baby in a position high enough to be able to kiss the top of their head. this keeps the two of you close and in tune with each other. with a baby in a bag sling, this just isn't possible.
my favorite sling is the Hava sling, http://www.nurturedfamily.com/detail.aspx?ID=699. it is easy to adjust and allows the baby to be carried in a variety of very safe positions. the sling comes with a great DVD that demonstrates how to properly use the sling. another variation of this same sling is the Sling Ezee, http://www.nurturedfamily.com/detail.aspx?ID=167. and it is just as easy to use and safe for baby.
it is important to remember that all slings and baby carriers are not "bag slings". there are just a few of those (bag slings) out there and all slings should not be grouped into one category. really the design is what is bad, not the idea of a sling or babywearing.
as others have mentioned, www.babywearers.com is a great resource for parents to learn more about babywearing and talk with others about any concerns or issues that you may have.
edit: www.thebabywearer.com
must need more coffee! ;)
Kate K. ... any chance you feel guilt for not holding your child(ren) enough? Way to lash out on an entire group of people in a comment section for something completely unrelated. Not all granola-loving, clothing diapering, organic eating, vegan, babywearing, stay at home mama's practice co-sleeping. Don't generalize people the same way I'm not going to assume you neglected to provide your child(ren) with the affection they need because you put them in strollers/chairs instead of holding them.
My daughter has been in some form of a carrier since she was 2 days old. I did research on the different types of carriers and made an EDUCATED decision on what to choose. We have never had one issue. The type of carrier used in the deaths of this poor little baby has been known to be a bad one for quite some time. It's heartbreaking it has took several little lives to bring light to how unsafe certain "popular" carriers are.
I agree with unknown make an educated decision and use some common sense. The origianl article is chosen to bring awareness and warn parents of the bag like sling. I do think the article is a little too generalized. Not all slings are equal, you should find one for your body type and your baby size. This is not a new "greenie" idea Kate. Slings have been around forever. People shouldnt abolish the idea of a sling just because some poor designs are out. This is just like all the crib recalls, because some babys died that doesnt mean all cribs are bad, the parents are bad or you shouldnt put your kid in one, like the sling if yours wasnt recalled you should just take the extra precaution to make sure yours is safe and provide extra monitoring. Not everything works for everybody but my jellybean sling is a lifesaver to me. Every baby item has its risks.
I never felt comfortable having my baby in any slings. It does not feel safe and with all the other alternatives out there I fail to see why women would prefer slings. For me it was simply useless and too risky.
The slings that were recalled always looked unsafe to me. I cringed seeing a baby pretty much folded up in them and hanging down at mom or dad's waist. That is NOT how you baby wear and it's a shame they are tarnishing all slings. Baby should be up on your chest and always visible. I learned loads about various slings at http://www.ababycarrier.com. When practiced safely, babywearing is an invaluable tool and amazing experience.
The slings that were recalled always looked unsafe to me. I cringed seeing a baby pretty much folded up in them and hanging down at mom or dad's waist. That is NOT how you baby wear and it's a shame they are tarnishing all slings. Baby should be up on your chest and always visible. When practiced safely, babywearing is an invaluable tool and amazing experience.