How about one that can hold itself. Whoa! Now thats what I need, I'm disabled you see! Lol.. After 10 to 30 minutes trying to jump start my self, my arm wants to fall off!!! LOL But I'm serious.
It ceases to amaze me what these pharmaceutical companies will do to next. They seem to think there is a pill for everything when there isn't, but that doesn't matter as long as they have a marketing strategy that overblows a problem and pretends to have a solution for it in the form of a cheap pill they can charge a fortune for. What a bunch of crap.
That is the most sexist generalization that I've ever seen.
Not all women are like that, just as not all men are insensitive idiots who are probably sitting around wondering why they can't get laid like you.
I'm in agreement with "wlockridge" below - if men spent a fraction of the time trying to find out what pleases their female partner that they spend on watching ESPN, they might find out that women don't need a "female Viagra".
Sorry, slapping my butt while I'm cooking your dinner, and trying to grab my boobs every time i get near you just doesn't do it for most women.
That is hilarious flylowguy...and it seems so true. And i am sorry GAgal but there got to be a better way to receive our 3 1/2 minutes of pleasure without having to deal with 3 1/2 hours of emotional bs. (if my wife is reading, i am just playing)
Flylowguy: It doesn't start in the bedroom 5 min before climbing under the covers. With women it starts early in the morning, throughout the day, a compliment on what she cooked and a snuggle on the couch to close the deal. Say and do nice little thing all day long and most often you will have reached her intimate side by the evening.
I am however a little miffed over the fact that some people think the only reason women don't get it on with their men more often has to do with the lack of expensive gifts and posessions as opposed to a lack of effort on the part of their partner to actually try to get their woman in the mood.
I think a little more effort on the part of the man (not all men mind you - some of you guys get it right) would go a long way.
I couldn't respond to my mate. Really thought what is the problem? Bought toys, erotic novels to read to 'get' me in the mood. Lost weight to feel more sexier. Planned those get-a-aways.
What showed me my sexual power? A different mate!! WOW what a difference. Didn't need anything that I tried with the other. What a different the man makes.
Knew how to spend time with me in sex. Made sure that I came before him. Not any of that wham bam thank you (really no thank you) mam stuff from the former mate. Yea we do have the quickies, but he knows me and what it takes for both of us to come at the same time.
At age 52 I am making up for the 20 years that was wasted with the other. What a difference!!!
I've said it for many years if the "attraction" doesn't last, than it wasn't LOVE it was lust, just wanted to see what the other had. Men take a little time with your wife and women do the same ( or significate other) if it is about "gifts or such" be prepared for it to end when the "fire" runs out. Yes nice gifts are nice but if his or her performance is based on these kinds of things find someone that you have "chemistry" with and does not need gifts to let you in the "front door".
"In women there's no mechanical concern, so if she's not having a successful sex life, where is the problem?"
Well here's a clue. See with men, we're not expected to get excited about a partner that uses them for a maid/personal assistant/mother the other 23 hours of the day, who makes not the slightest effort to shave/shower/brush their teeth prior to an encounter, who thinks foreplay is pinching her on the breast on the way to the fridge to get a beer, thinks spontaneity is a quickie at half time during the football/baseball/basketball/soccer game, and who learned their sexual technique from watching porn movies. Men want sex, women want sex AND romance. They're just unreasonable that way. That's why alcohol is still the best "female Viagra" there is. It helps them to not notice what pigs we are. Sorry guys, a lot of you are calling me names right now, but you know as well as I do if we put as much effort into seducing our women as we do trying to get five more miles per hour out of out bass boats, they would be on us like a politician on a taxpayer.
You're right wlockridge! It's took me 20 years and a bunch of girlfriends to realize everything you said is true. Guys you'll find that most women don't expect you to change over night, but they would like to see some kind of change if they're not happy. I have a pretty good job that has allowed me all the toys and a little money put back. However that only works a little and most of the time with someone you don't want to keep anyway. Now as I have gotten a little older I've learned better spending habits of time and money. I've found out by incorporating more together activities into my selfish schedule I tend to make my mate more happy. Also by doing that I've learned that not only is it easier it requires less money. On Sunday's I only need enough money to spring for a chocolate dipped ice cream at Dairy Queen or something of that nature. Then maybe for some crackers so she can feed the ducks as we stroll through the park. Then in the evenings at home needless to say I am kindly rewarded for the attention I've given her without even asking for it. Coming from a guy that didn't need anyone I tell ya guys I wouldn't trade my new life for 3 of the old ones!
Judge and Jury, Do you have any Nice clones of your self or perhaps brothers. Do you have time time to teach a bunch of old dogs some new tricks' here in New Orleans we can sure use your help getting our husband trained! God Bless your Mom and Dad.
Well I can't help you with that dreamcatcher lol. However that is not something you can teach I don't believe I think it's more of a lesson learned kind of thing. After 2 divorces and a whole bunch of slaps in the face and every holiday alone you start to figure things out I think.
bluedreamcatcher, it isn't just New Orleans, it seems to be the case in New York State also. At No wonder European men are sought after. They know how to work magic on a woman.
Ya know, about 30% of the drugs approved by the FDA work no better than a placebo. Said another way, a sugar pill with side effects but no benefit.
The FDA is dominated by MD's with no skills in designing, conducting, or evaluating clinical trials of drugs. They must depend on the pharmaceutical companies for these skills. And the drug companies are allowed to "cherrypick" data and suppress all that it does not want the FDA to see.
Over 80% of physicians at the FDA are illegally receiving money or other compensation from the drug companies and refuse to disclose it. When drug companies have been required to post the names of all physicians to whom they have given "gifts" or other compensation, FDA physicians were specifically exempted.
It is little wonder why worthless, but expensive, drugs come to market.
Ya know, 100% of your post is ignorance and idiocy. Actually, I think you have successfully managed to get every single misquoted and misstated "fact" in your diatribe incorrect, either willfully or blindly.
You are not a researcher, a doctor of any field, and certainly not knowledgeable in any of the respective topics. Continue living under your tin-foil canopy.
I've been following this story. I had a hysterectomy because of ovarian cancer and now no sex drive. I have used HRT and testosterone, but it has no effect . Viagra for men works by increasing blood flow, and for the millions of women who have sexual dysfunction after hystrectomy this could be our magic pill.
I just wish physicians and scientists drop this so called 'emotional' aspect. We're looking at physiological aspects;diminished blood flow, severed nerve endings, etc... come on folks, women aren't that complicated.
Seeing your comment was actually the very first thing I thought of when I read the story. Women's sexual desire does NOT come from chemicals in the BRAIN. It has to do with hormones, as you are saying your ovaries were removed...thus no hormone producing ovaries and no sexual desire. There is no chemical of the brain to do with depression/emotions to do with it, it is a uniquely female hormone they are looking for. You'd think doctors would know this. It's sorta a "well duh" thing for me. I know when my hormones are going a bit nutty during PMS sometimes I'm more interested in sex than other times. THus the whole PMS, hormones, increased blood flow in that area of the body...all makes sense as you are saying.
As for romancing a woman as some of the others are talking about...you don't have to spend money on it. When my hubby and I first married we had no money. We still had romantic dinners at home, we'd cook together, sit in the floor and cuddle and eat together and watch a rented movie. Usually one that wasn't just a chic flick but was one he'd enjoy too...sorta action.romance genre. It worked for us and cost the price of a movie rental and what we would have spent on dinner anyway cooking at home. --- AND we were already home....and thankfully we had a nice thick living room rug. ;P
Although it was noted the first pill designed to boost the female sex drive failed to make a significant impact on libido, the FDA noted that one of the more positive side effects of the drug was that 86% of the women using the pill were more likely not to argue about having to sleep in the wet spot.
I must agree with posts #4-4.1. they don't need a pill, just some loving attention. I can tell the difference when I just want some vs when she wants some, and it's usually after I pay attention to her and do "the little things" for her. A woman has a totally different thought process than us guys. We think sex. They think emotions. So don't be a selfish bastard and put your woman on the pedestal every now and then and you'll be surprised how much more she pays attention to "your needs". I even get rewarded with material goods as well when I do so. Heck, she just helped me get a ski boat recently and all I did was complete her honey do list and let her vent from her hard days at work. I don't always enjoy it but it pays in the end every time.
Women make it complicated, they want the moon and stars. Sex is not complicated. If more women spend time with themselves from a early age like guys do more women would be satisfied. I understand that in medical situations this kills, but just the normal woman in good health still has trouble. Being married for 16 yrs and had other experiences most women that I found get off think about sex, have sex, and spend time with themselves. Men know what they like and what turns them on and if active it seems to work more. It is a muscle just like your arm and leg, and if not used will stop. A bottle of wine works sometimes and nothing the next time. Women change more than men change their socks or underwear. If you women would relax, enjoy your body as much as guys like looking at it and touching it that grab in the kitchen might spark something instead of upsetting.
I admire my wife and enjoy daily touching her, not always sexual just to love on and appreciate her body as much as talking to her. I have gone great lengths to understand what makes her happy and does nothing. Most of the time it is nothing but if she was to walk up and reach around and grap my hooters it is amazingg how quick things jump to attention. simple, enjoy relax and participate. laying there does nothing.
So what you're saying is that it's the womans fault that she can't get off? So, "If more women spend time with themselves from a early age like guys do more women would be satisfied" and if we were to "relax, enjoy her body as much as guys like looking at it and touching it that grab in the kitchen might spark something instead of upsetting." Well Dr. Trevor, that explains it all! We all need to stop wanting the moon and the stars (because ALL women do, right?), get in bed and play with ourselves and our problems will be solved. I will start spreading the word.
It not womens fault, feeling guilty or something. Women are not taught or even spoken to about sex. See you are stressed reading my stuff, relax. Nothing wrong with the moon and stars but don't set your sights for something out reach. See you are probably one of those unsatisfied women.
Please explain what you mean by setting our sights for something that's out of reach. Would that be romance? Fourplay? Cuddling? Orgasms? And I happen to be a very satisfied, 28 year old, single woman, thank you. And I'm not sure what generation you are from but women my age have been spoken to and have been taught about sex. Just sayin...
A little older but not far. Setting you sights to high in romance, and organsms. You might be satisfied but is your husband, truthfully, have you asked him? Most men love to romance but after awhile it seems like no matter what, how or when we do it, it always falls short in your eyes, women. I was talked to about sex, but not in a way that benefited desires, love, or pleasure. I learned more about sex in France in one summer than 20 yrs of America schools, life or parents.
Isn't it funny that they invented Viagra years ago, not to mention a blood test for prostrate cancer markers. But still nothing for women to make them horny or to detect breast, cervical or uterine cancer markers. Gee guys, how come you always come first, excuse the pun. Being past menopause, I would fork over serious money for a pill like that and my husband would be a happy man. I'll bet the insurance companies wouldn't pay for our pills like they do for Viagra.
Being past menopause, I want that pill and I want it now. Oh yeah, as noted in other comments above, grabbing my boob for a minute doesn't do a thing for me nor does an unshowered unshaven slob.I don't care if it is the weekend; shower and shave for god's sake. What's the old saying; there's no such thing as a frigid woman, just bad lovers.
At the ripe old age of 57, probably the last thing on my mind when I consider all the things I have to acomplish on any given day, is to please my 60-year old husband. fortunately, he hasn't been convinced by all the hype out there that we have to F---like minks to prove we are still young. We, love each other deeply, and I consider myself a potential cougar, only if I could meet Bruce Willis in person. I think that would erase the Cougar label, but that would be my dream come true as long as I dont have to lose any weight or shave my legs, etc.
Pam, for many men it's not that we have to be convinced by some hype that to prove that we're still young that we have to "you know what" like minks every night. Many men, myself included get these extreme thoughts and urges starting at puberty and though it might wane a bit through the years it never does go away. I'm in mid 50's, I love and adore my wife and have never thought about straying but.....I continue to think about sex practically every minute of every day without fail. It's just the way we're built and programmmed. I'd imagine that it has something to do with the testosterone pulsing through our veins. We're completely different animals and there's nothing wrong with that. It makes life interesting!
After a 21 year marriage of which 17 years were excellent and now a so far 6 year fantastic second marriage as well as talking to good friends. No matter how much love is shown and then even throwing in backrubs, romance, an eager willingness for extended foreplay for the women, taking responsibility with the kids and helping around the house, couples time spent together, candles, music, etc and even money........There are always exceptions to the rule but on a grand scale men just plain and simply desire much more sex than women do as time passes by in long term relationships. It's part of that Mars and Venus theory, we're different in many ways including sexual desire.
No czeck ...Dave has it about right . There are many many men out there helping out with the house duties, spending time with the kids, being romantic all that good stuff women SEEM to need in order to maintain a healthy sexual relationship....but for many good husbands none of that works. When she was 20 she would "f" like a rabbit, just like her boyfriend...s
So women had the high libido then ....but a few years later it disspears? WTF ? And doing a few extra chores around the house increases her libido? Come on ...
czeckmejt. You make some incorrect assumptions. My first wife was an executive making twice what I do and since it was her idea to divorce she agreed to buy me out and I left with fully half of our 21 years assets. My second wife and her ex divorced and went their seperate ways with no money being exchanged. The both of us walked into our second marriage with good jobs, homes and assets with the both of us financially independant. I know some guys that got royally screwed in divorces and I fully realize that I am one of the very fortunate ones.
Men have been dealing with the problem of low female libido since we emerged from the caves. All of the theories, medical advances and psychobabble over the millenia have done little to change this equation. The simple fact of the matter is that women NEED to establish and to nurture an emotional connection to a man to be able to engage with him on a physical level. If it were simply the act of getting off sexually, women are equal with men if one considers the ubiquity of masturbation among both sexes. A woman's sexual connection to a man is intrinsically tied to her acceptance of the man on a number of emotional levels. Frankly, if men want to have more sex with the women in their lives, the men need to be more attuned to the 'needs' that a woman deems important: attentiveness, sensitivity, communication and emotional availability ... a woman simply desires to have 'connectiveness' to cement the physical bond between herself and the man. Sex is an extremely important component to any healthy relationship but let's stop trying to re-invent the wheel.
All this crap about doing HER honey-do list is crap. So if I fold the laundry, dust the furniture, vaccum the rug, and the rest of the work she is going to suddenly get horny? What BS.
How does the honey-do list BS account for all the women in there 20's and 30's who would have the same sexual desire as a man his age? They are off xxxing like rabbits. But when a women turns 40 or older this sexual desire changes under the condition of domestic duties? Come on.
How about all the women on the internet that will do nearly anything for cash. You know what I am talking about. So there is some truth to the fact expensive jewlery, cash, cars, homes, vacations "somehow" makes a women horny.
I know of countless women that have their "little friend" in the end table drawer or others with fantasies , or others who talk about alot.
I just dont buy the bull about "If you do this for me I will get horny crap".
This drug is really needed ...especially for those couples...mostly the men that are in a sexless marriage.
Maybe if women lost some weight so they could feel "sexy" to themselves they might have an increased libido.
I know it really doesnt make them horny , but the fact of the matter is those "things" will certainly motivate her to jump in bed all of a sudden.
Whereas the good father and husband tries to be romantic and pays attention to her and ... finishes the "honey-do" list and still gets a rejected... or even ends up in a sexless marriage. I hope they do find a pill for women the number of special custom requirements for a women to have sex is ridiculous really...
Here's something that I can speak of with some personal knowledge. I have been very satisfied with my second wife of 6 years looks, sexual energy and frequency. And then bang.....one day she wakes up at the age of 52 and the old "change of life" wheels have begun to turn. Hot flashes, cold sweats, mood swings and a loss of desire. And this can last for years. Once again, it's not their fault, it's just a fact of life and something that happens in life and I'll ride out the storm with my beauiful woman but in the meantime like so many other men I go on thinking about sex 24/7!
The point is that if men (again, not all men) would get off the couch and HELP your girlfriends or wives with some of the MOUNTAINS of crap you thoughtlessly pile on them (cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, child care, etc) instead of creating more work for them, they might not be so darn tired, and they might actually be interested in having sex with you.
Generally, when a woman is in her 40's, sexual desire changes due to MENOPAUSE you idiot, not domestic duties.
If you want a skank from the internet, then go ahead and pay her to get your rocks off and then your wife or girlfriend in that sexless marriage of yours won't have to worry about you pawing at her all the time.
Why must men continuously confuse appreciation with horniness? Buying me a diamond doesn't make me horny, it makes me appreciative. And the truth is, not everyone has the money for expensive things, but I'm pretty sure poor people don't refrain from having sex because they're poor.
What's your point about having our "little friend" in the nightstand drawer. Are we supposed to have them, or not supposed to have them? Or are you just angry because "gasp" we don't need you to help us get off?
If being in a sexless marriage bothers the man so much, then he should do what ever other man in the world would do - either cheat on her, divorce her, or actually try to figure out what the issue it.
Thank you for solving the problem we have wrestled with since the beginning of time. If all fat people became skinny, people would be doing it like rabbits on the street corners. Come one girls, lets just go to the gym and loose weight - that will solve all our problems in life.
You are the poster child for why women don't want to have sex as much as men.
And you are the poster child d-bag why men stop having sex with their partners.
The point is many men DO infact help out with the chores and maybe they are appreciated but thats as far as that goes. Maybe some of those men sitting on the couch have it right...dammed if you do and dammed if you dont. Funny how some women tend to leave the fact out that the husband also works all day and does his "manly" chores lawn, maintance etc and then helps her out...
Generally, when a woman is in her 40's, sexual desire changes due to MENOPAUSE you idiot, not domestic duties.
Great then the pill will be helpful douchebag. So tell us where does that put the good husband having to forego possibly years or even for the remainder of the marriage without sex again?
If you want a skank from the internet, then go ahead and pay her to get your rocks off and then your wife or girlfriend in that sexless marriage of yours won't have to worry about you pawing at her all the time.
The point is many many women dont seem to have a problem f'ing for cash or a expensive home etc....but again the average husband has the still run through hoops to get his wife to be receptive. Maybe husbands should just fork over a handful of cash.
What's your point about having our "little friend" in the nightstand drawer. Are we supposed to have them, or not supposed to have them? Or are you just angry because "gasp" we don't need you to help us get off?
I could give a crap if they have them or not. The point being douchebag is her "little friend" doesnt do any of those chores....yet she will have the libido to play with her friend. But the husband is still required to do the chores. So again why is doing chores a requirement for sex? Certainly its a nice to do, sex or not, but I dont see the correlation.
if being in a sexless marriage bothers the man so much, then he should do what ever other man in the world would do - either cheat on her, divorce her, or actually try to figure out what the issue it.
They do....and women do it as well.
Thank you for solving the problem we have wrestled with since the beginning of time. If all fat people became skinny, people would be doing it like rabbits on the street corners. Come one girls, lets just go to the gym and loose weight - that will solve all our problems in life.
Smoke another joint would you? Holy crap.... But its true in many cases ...a the women gains weight and she no longer feels sexy enough to have sex with her mate....also this is where the mate usually refrains from sex as he no longer finds her sexy as well.
And you are the poster child d-bag why men stop having sex with their partners.
I thought we were talking about women not having sex with their partners, not vice versa.
The point is many men DO infact help out with the chores and maybe they are appreciated but thats as far as that goes. Maybe some of those men sitting on the couch have it right...dammed if you do and dammed if you dont. Funny how some women tend to leave the fact out that the husband also works all day and does his "manly" chores lawn, maintance etc and then helps her out...
Haha...sorry for the wakeup call, but most men do not help. Most women work 40 hour weeks and still come home to another several hours worth of work while their husbands come home and sit on their behinds because they worked all day. Get a clue. It's not the 1950's anymore. Women work. When both people in the relationship work full-time, then housework, shopping, etc. is not simply a woman's job anymore. The hour that you spend mowing the lawn once a week does not absolve you of all other responsibilities. I'm going to try that when I go home tonight. "Well, I did a load of laundry, I'm done for the night."
Great then the pill will be helpful douchebag. So tell us where does that put the good husband having to forego possibly years or even for the remainder of the marriage without sex again?
Oh, poor "good" little hubby. Sorry, don't feel bad for you. We're the ones that have to experience the hell that I've heard is menopause. Do you think women LIKE feeling like that? I'm sure they don't. Although, not being near menopause myself, I suppose I can't speak for all post menopausal women.
The point is many many women dont seem to have a problem f'ing for cash or a expensive home etc....but again the average husband has the still run through hoops to get his wife to be receptive. Maybe husbands should just fork over a handful of cash.
You're missing the entire point. People who accept money for sex are having sex with you solely for that reason - as long as you pay them, they don't give a crap about you. Married people are supposed to have sex because they love and care for one another, and are physically attracted to each other. If all you care about is meaningless sex, then by all means, go ahead and pay someone for it. If you want meaningful sex with your partner, then the two of you need to sit down and work through whatever is going on making her not want to have sex. I'm willing to bet that getting older and fatter isn't the only reason. The quality of women that accept money and gifts for sex is obviously not what you're looking for, or else you wouldn't be with your significant other anymore at all.
I could give a crap if they have them or not. The point being douchebag is her "little friend" doesn't do any of those chores....yet she will have the libido to play with her friend. But the husband is still required to do the chores. So again why is doing chores a requirement for sex? Certainly its a nice to do, sex or not, but I dont see the correlation.
I can attest that my little friend takes less than 2 minutes to get me where I need to be. Sex with hubby usually takes A LOT longer. If you're tired from running your behind all over the place all day working, etc, generally, 2 minutes is what you're going to opt for so you can go to sleep. Perfect example - last night hubby gave the kid a bath while I cooked, he took out the trash while I put the kid to bed, and when we were both done, we both had a lot more energy for "fun time" - and included the little friend! Now, I'm sure that's more detail than what you wanted to know, but it demonstrates the point I'm trying to make.
They do....and women do it as well.
Have to agree with you on that one. Women cheat too.
Smoke another joint would you? Holy crap....
Trust me, if i was allowed to smoke joints at work, I would.
But its true in many cases ...a the women gains weight and she no longer feels sexy enough to have sex with her mate....also this is where the mate usually refrains from sex as he no longer finds her sexy as well.
This goes both ways. Men can gain weight and become unattractive to their mates as well. At that point, you need to sit down and have an honest conversation about it (kindly). It may hurt her feelings, but in the long run, I'd rather have my husband tell me honestly, and help get me motivated to do something about it. I'd definitely be mad for a bit, but common sense would prevail and show me that he's right. My husband and I have both put on a bit of weight over the last few years, and we talked about it, and started walking at night as a family, swimming, etc - together.
You are correct that your perception of your physical appearance does have a significant impact on your self-confidence, which, in turn, has an impact on your sexual desires. However, I know of several overweight people that have very healthy sex lives. Your earlier comment made it sound like losing weight is a cure all for all issues with a couple in their sexual relationship.
There are some medical issues that can cause libido issues in women for sure, however, I believe that the majority of these types of issues have a deeper root cause. Women are emotional creatures, and men are visual creatures. Although men may think it's all "emotional BS", that doesn't take away from the fact that the woman doesn't think it's emotional BS. And until she thinks differently, you're not going to get anything from her. So, I'd say that men need to take the time to figure out what's causing the issue. There is no "magic pill" that's going to fix those issues, except of course, maybe Valium.
Hubby and I had a "dry spell" because I was too darn tired after all was said and done at night to even care. We talked (and yelled) about it, and both made changes in our lives and habits, came to a compromise, and got it worked out, without any "magic pills".
Women want the emotional side to sex and men want the physical side of sex. If your lady isn't into sex, try a hooker. They are like men and enjoy the physical side. Having sex to get off. For the best results, marry a hooker.
The shotgun marketing from viagra sellers is a national disgrace!! These are low life companies with no morals that follow their peckers around and pretend to be human!
Hey all, I have given my wife a small dosage of Viagra on several ocassions...(5-10mg)...and every time she is, well more responsive, wanting and just plain hotter than normal. I've shared this with buddies of mine and 2 of 3 of them have idnicated they and ehir wives have done well with this also. All I can say is that when she does take this small amount...every time I get the good, dirty sex.
I've been wathcing these tests with interest myself and have been baffled that their results have been inconclusive. If you have some 'V' have her try it (not a full dose, small amount)....you'll probably see what I mean as she'll ...and not to get too graphic...willl, ummm...demonstrate more psyiological traits of a women fully turned on.
I won't even try to explain the scientific invalidity of testknight's "experiment." Not that it couldn't work some of the time for some people, but it is far from a scientific study.
In my opinion, the best female viagra is a man doing dishes!
Female viagra is called cash or a big check book.Sorry gal's but from experience that is what it seems like.I know there are a few good ones out there and i'd like to be lucky enough to meet one.
I think this is nature's way of continuing the species. Think about it: if a woman could get an orgams by taking a pill, there are going to be a LOT of frustrated straight guys out there.
On the other hand, it could go a long way toward population control. Our planet is over-crowded as it is.
Handheld vacuum device?? hmmm
How about one that can hold itself. Whoa! Now thats what I need, I'm disabled you see! Lol.. After 10 to 30 minutes trying to jump start my self, my arm wants to fall off!!! LOL But I'm serious.
Spanish Fly?
How about trying Fig Newtons, a jar of peanut butter and a can of frosting. :)
They already have female viagra. It's known by it's more common name: Cash!!!
An anti-depressing hand held vacuuming device. Romance has never been so convenient.
It ceases to amaze me what these pharmaceutical companies will do to next. They seem to think there is a pill for everything when there isn't, but that doesn't matter as long as they have a marketing strategy that overblows a problem and pretends to have a solution for it in the form of a cheap pill they can charge a fortune for. What a bunch of crap.
I didn't know the Vacum was depressed. Is it on medication? Just what I need another pillhead. "Shoot now I'm depressed"
Here are a few things I noticed that seem to work, and they are not pills:
attention from good looking strange men
expensive jewelry
expensive meals
expensive clothes and shoes
expensive perfume
expensive champagne
candle light and music, preferably in an expensive house
expensive little get-aways to expensive hotels in expensive areas
When they can put all that in a pill, it will be a bargain, no matter what it costs.
That is the most sexist generalization that I've ever seen.
Not all women are like that, just as not all men are insensitive idiots who are probably sitting around wondering why they can't get laid like you.
I'm in agreement with "wlockridge" below - if men spent a fraction of the time trying to find out what pleases their female partner that they spend on watching ESPN, they might find out that women don't need a "female Viagra".
Sorry, slapping my butt while I'm cooking your dinner, and trying to grab my boobs every time i get near you just doesn't do it for most women.
flylowguy.....This is so funny!!!!! AND it's all true! I'll be laughing all day.
Wow...someone is bitter.
That is hilarious flylowguy...and it seems so true. And i am sorry GAgal but there got to be a better way to receive our 3 1/2 minutes of pleasure without having to deal with 3 1/2 hours of emotional bs. (if my wife is reading, i am just playing)
Flylowguy: It doesn't start in the bedroom 5 min before climbing under the covers. With women it starts early in the morning, throughout the day, a compliment on what she cooked and a snuggle on the couch to close the deal. Say and do nice little thing all day long and most often you will have reached her intimate side by the evening.
Would you be wanting a big scoop of CASH with all that expensive stuff? And how about some fries? LOL
Hey runaway Bull, That probably why my husband strikes out every night. He spend his day chasing booze and cigarettes.
Erica,
I'm not bitter.
I am however a little miffed over the fact that some people think the only reason women don't get it on with their men more often has to do with the lack of expensive gifts and posessions as opposed to a lack of effort on the part of their partner to actually try to get their woman in the mood.
I think a little more effort on the part of the man (not all men mind you - some of you guys get it right) would go a long way.
Espliff,
3.5 minutes? Nuff said...
How about a man with a bit of class and prowess?
I couldn't respond to my mate. Really thought what is the problem? Bought toys, erotic novels to read to 'get' me in the mood. Lost weight to feel more sexier. Planned those get-a-aways.
What showed me my sexual power? A different mate!! WOW what a difference. Didn't need anything that I tried with the other. What a different the man makes.
Knew how to spend time with me in sex. Made sure that I came before him. Not any of that wham bam thank you (really no thank you) mam stuff from the former mate. Yea we do have the quickies, but he knows me and what it takes for both of us to come at the same time.
At age 52 I am making up for the 20 years that was wasted with the other. What a difference!!!
I've said it for many years if the "attraction" doesn't last, than it wasn't LOVE it was lust, just wanted to see what the other had. Men take a little time with your wife and women do the same ( or significate other) if it is about "gifts or such" be prepared for it to end when the "fire" runs out. Yes nice gifts are nice but if his or her performance is based on these kinds of things find someone that you have "chemistry" with and does not need gifts to let you in the "front door".
You got that right.
GeorgiaGal,
Didn't mean you being bitter...I meant flylowguy sounds pretty bitter.
LOL - thanks. Sorry, was being defensive!
Well here's a clue. See with men, we're not expected to get excited about a partner that uses them for a maid/personal assistant/mother the other 23 hours of the day, who makes not the slightest effort to shave/shower/brush their teeth prior to an encounter, who thinks foreplay is pinching her on the breast on the way to the fridge to get a beer, thinks spontaneity is a quickie at half time during the football/baseball/basketball/soccer game, and who learned their sexual technique from watching porn movies. Men want sex, women want sex AND romance. They're just unreasonable that way. That's why alcohol is still the best "female Viagra" there is. It helps them to not notice what pigs we are. Sorry guys, a lot of you are calling me names right now, but you know as well as I do if we put as much effort into seducing our women as we do trying to get five more miles per hour out of out bass boats, they would be on us like a politician on a taxpayer.
You're right wlockridge! It's took me 20 years and a bunch of girlfriends to realize everything you said is true. Guys you'll find that most women don't expect you to change over night, but they would like to see some kind of change if they're not happy. I have a pretty good job that has allowed me all the toys and a little money put back. However that only works a little and most of the time with someone you don't want to keep anyway. Now as I have gotten a little older I've learned better spending habits of time and money. I've found out by incorporating more together activities into my selfish schedule I tend to make my mate more happy. Also by doing that I've learned that not only is it easier it requires less money. On Sunday's I only need enough money to spring for a chocolate dipped ice cream at Dairy Queen or something of that nature. Then maybe for some crackers so she can feed the ducks as we stroll through the park. Then in the evenings at home needless to say I am kindly rewarded for the attention I've given her without even asking for it. Coming from a guy that didn't need anyone I tell ya guys I wouldn't trade my new life for 3 of the old ones!
Can you tell the 20 somthing yr old guys that? they don't listen when a female explains this.
Judge and Jury, Do you have any Nice clones of your self or perhaps brothers. Do you have time time to teach a bunch of old dogs some new tricks' here in New Orleans we can sure use your help getting our husband trained! God Bless your Mom and Dad.
Well I can't help you with that dreamcatcher lol. However that is not something you can teach I don't believe I think it's more of a lesson learned kind of thing. After 2 divorces and a whole bunch of slaps in the face and every holiday alone you start to figure things out I think.
bluedreamcatcher, it isn't just New Orleans, it seems to be the case in New York State also. At No wonder European men are sought after. They know how to work magic on a woman.
Ya know, about 30% of the drugs approved by the FDA work no better than a placebo. Said another way, a sugar pill with side effects but no benefit.
The FDA is dominated by MD's with no skills in designing, conducting, or evaluating clinical trials of drugs. They must depend on the pharmaceutical companies for these skills. And the drug companies are allowed to "cherrypick" data and suppress all that it does not want the FDA to see.
Over 80% of physicians at the FDA are illegally receiving money or other compensation from the drug companies and refuse to disclose it. When drug companies have been required to post the names of all physicians to whom they have given "gifts" or other compensation, FDA physicians were specifically exempted.
It is little wonder why worthless, but expensive, drugs come to market.
Ya know, 100% of your post is ignorance and idiocy. Actually, I think you have successfully managed to get every single misquoted and misstated "fact" in your diatribe incorrect, either willfully or blindly.
You are not a researcher, a doctor of any field, and certainly not knowledgeable in any of the respective topics. Continue living under your tin-foil canopy.
I've been following this story. I had a hysterectomy because of ovarian cancer and now no sex drive. I have used HRT and testosterone, but it has no effect . Viagra for men works by increasing blood flow, and for the millions of women who have sexual dysfunction after hystrectomy this could be our magic pill.
I just wish physicians and scientists drop this so called 'emotional' aspect. We're looking at physiological aspects;diminished blood flow, severed nerve endings, etc... come on folks, women aren't that complicated.
Seeing your comment was actually the very first thing I thought of when I read the story. Women's sexual desire does NOT come from chemicals in the BRAIN. It has to do with hormones, as you are saying your ovaries were removed...thus no hormone producing ovaries and no sexual desire. There is no chemical of the brain to do with depression/emotions to do with it, it is a uniquely female hormone they are looking for. You'd think doctors would know this. It's sorta a "well duh" thing for me. I know when my hormones are going a bit nutty during PMS sometimes I'm more interested in sex than other times. THus the whole PMS, hormones, increased blood flow in that area of the body...all makes sense as you are saying.
As for romancing a woman as some of the others are talking about...you don't have to spend money on it. When my hubby and I first married we had no money. We still had romantic dinners at home, we'd cook together, sit in the floor and cuddle and eat together and watch a rented movie. Usually one that wasn't just a chic flick but was one he'd enjoy too...sorta action.romance genre. It worked for us and cost the price of a movie rental and what we would have spent on dinner anyway cooking at home. --- AND we were already home....and thankfully we had a nice thick living room rug. ;P
Although it was noted the first pill designed to boost the female sex drive failed to make a significant impact on libido, the FDA noted that one of the more positive side effects of the drug was that 86% of the women using the pill were more likely not to argue about having to sleep in the wet spot.
Bwwwaaaaaaahahahaha!
A little romance and charm always works for me, even with the most frigid women I've dated.
I must agree with posts #4-4.1. they don't need a pill, just some loving attention. I can tell the difference when I just want some vs when she wants some, and it's usually after I pay attention to her and do "the little things" for her. A woman has a totally different thought process than us guys. We think sex. They think emotions. So don't be a selfish bastard and put your woman on the pedestal every now and then and you'll be surprised how much more she pays attention to "your needs". I even get rewarded with material goods as well when I do so. Heck, she just helped me get a ski boat recently and all I did was complete her honey do list and let her vent from her hard days at work. I don't always enjoy it but it pays in the end every time.
Women make it complicated, they want the moon and stars. Sex is not complicated. If more women spend time with themselves from a early age like guys do more women would be satisfied. I understand that in medical situations this kills, but just the normal woman in good health still has trouble. Being married for 16 yrs and had other experiences most women that I found get off think about sex, have sex, and spend time with themselves. Men know what they like and what turns them on and if active it seems to work more. It is a muscle just like your arm and leg, and if not used will stop. A bottle of wine works sometimes and nothing the next time. Women change more than men change their socks or underwear. If you women would relax, enjoy your body as much as guys like looking at it and touching it that grab in the kitchen might spark something instead of upsetting.
I admire my wife and enjoy daily touching her, not always sexual just to love on and appreciate her body as much as talking to her. I have gone great lengths to understand what makes her happy and does nothing. Most of the time it is nothing but if she was to walk up and reach around and grap my hooters it is amazingg how quick things jump to attention. simple, enjoy relax and participate. laying there does nothing.
So what you're saying is that it's the womans fault that she can't get off? So, "If more women spend time with themselves from a early age like guys do more women would be satisfied" and if we were to "relax, enjoy her body as much as guys like looking at it and touching it that grab in the kitchen might spark something instead of upsetting." Well Dr. Trevor, that explains it all! We all need to stop wanting the moon and the stars (because ALL women do, right?), get in bed and play with ourselves and our problems will be solved. I will start spreading the word.
It not womens fault, feeling guilty or something. Women are not taught or even spoken to about sex. See you are stressed reading my stuff, relax. Nothing wrong with the moon and stars but don't set your sights for something out reach. See you are probably one of those unsatisfied women.
Please explain what you mean by setting our sights for something that's out of reach. Would that be romance? Fourplay? Cuddling? Orgasms? And I happen to be a very satisfied, 28 year old, single woman, thank you. And I'm not sure what generation you are from but women my age have been spoken to and have been taught about sex. Just sayin...
A little older but not far. Setting you sights to high in romance, and organsms. You might be satisfied but is your husband, truthfully, have you asked him? Most men love to romance but after awhile it seems like no matter what, how or when we do it, it always falls short in your eyes, women. I was talked to about sex, but not in a way that benefited desires, love, or pleasure. I learned more about sex in France in one summer than 20 yrs of America schools, life or parents.
Isn't it funny that they invented Viagra years ago, not to mention a blood test for prostrate cancer markers. But still nothing for women to make them horny or to detect breast, cervical or uterine cancer markers. Gee guys, how come you always come first, excuse the pun. Being past menopause, I would fork over serious money for a pill like that and my husband would be a happy man. I'll bet the insurance companies wouldn't pay for our pills like they do for Viagra.
Being past menopause, I want that pill and I want it now. Oh yeah, as noted in other comments above, grabbing my boob for a minute doesn't do a thing for me nor does an unshowered unshaven slob.I don't care if it is the weekend; shower and shave for god's sake. What's the old saying; there's no such thing as a frigid woman, just bad lovers.
What insurance, mine does not pay? That is why I moved on to natural ones. Cheaper and less stress trying to get to the doc for refills.
There are men that are bad lovers, women that are bad lovers and frigid women. They all co-exist!
At the ripe old age of 57, probably the last thing on my mind when I consider all the things I have to acomplish on any given day, is to please my 60-year old husband. fortunately, he hasn't been convinced by all the hype out there that we have to F---like minks to prove we are still young. We, love each other deeply, and I consider myself a potential cougar, only if I could meet Bruce Willis in person. I think that would erase the Cougar label, but that would be my dream come true as long as I dont have to lose any weight or shave my legs, etc.
Pam, for many men it's not that we have to be convinced by some hype that to prove that we're still young that we have to "you know what" like minks every night. Many men, myself included get these extreme thoughts and urges starting at puberty and though it might wane a bit through the years it never does go away. I'm in mid 50's, I love and adore my wife and have never thought about straying but.....I continue to think about sex practically every minute of every day without fail. It's just the way we're built and programmmed. I'd imagine that it has something to do with the testosterone pulsing through our veins. We're completely different animals and there's nothing wrong with that. It makes life interesting!
Dave, you just sure up my point. Women think about it might like to have it.
Simple, just sprinkle $100 bills on the seat of a Mercedes Convertible, gets them excited every time !
Does that mean women who take Viagra are satisfied with men who are not long?
I thought a bottle of Jack and some Barry White CD's was all that 's necessary. Don't get mad - I'm just sayin'.
After a 21 year marriage of which 17 years were excellent and now a so far 6 year fantastic second marriage as well as talking to good friends. No matter how much love is shown and then even throwing in backrubs, romance, an eager willingness for extended foreplay for the women, taking responsibility with the kids and helping around the house, couples time spent together, candles, music, etc and even money........There are always exceptions to the rule but on a grand scale men just plain and simply desire much more sex than women do as time passes by in long term relationships. It's part of that Mars and Venus theory, we're different in many ways including sexual desire.
No czeck ...Dave has it about right . There are many many men out there helping out with the house duties, spending time with the kids, being romantic all that good stuff women SEEM to need in order to maintain a healthy sexual relationship....but for many good husbands none of that works. When she was 20 she would "f" like a rabbit, just like her boyfriend...s
So women had the high libido then ....but a few years later it disspears? WTF ? And doing a few extra chores around the house increases her libido? Come on ...
women are such a pain in the azz, truly.
czeckmejt. You make some incorrect assumptions. My first wife was an executive making twice what I do and since it was her idea to divorce she agreed to buy me out and I left with fully half of our 21 years assets. My second wife and her ex divorced and went their seperate ways with no money being exchanged. The both of us walked into our second marriage with good jobs, homes and assets with the both of us financially independant. I know some guys that got royally screwed in divorces and I fully realize that I am one of the very fortunate ones.
Men have been dealing with the problem of low female libido since we emerged from the caves. All of the theories, medical advances and psychobabble over the millenia have done little to change this equation. The simple fact of the matter is that women NEED to establish and to nurture an emotional connection to a man to be able to engage with him on a physical level. If it were simply the act of getting off sexually, women are equal with men if one considers the ubiquity of masturbation among both sexes. A woman's sexual connection to a man is intrinsically tied to her acceptance of the man on a number of emotional levels. Frankly, if men want to have more sex with the women in their lives, the men need to be more attuned to the 'needs' that a woman deems important: attentiveness, sensitivity, communication and emotional availability ... a woman simply desires to have 'connectiveness' to cement the physical bond between herself and the man. Sex is an extremely important component to any healthy relationship but let's stop trying to re-invent the wheel.
Prometheus ...
Ya what a freaking mystery...
All this crap about doing HER honey-do list is crap. So if I fold the laundry, dust the furniture, vaccum the rug, and the rest of the work she is going to suddenly get horny? What BS.
How does the honey-do list BS account for all the women in there 20's and 30's who would have the same sexual desire as a man his age? They are off xxxing like rabbits. But when a women turns 40 or older this sexual desire changes under the condition of domestic duties? Come on.
How about all the women on the internet that will do nearly anything for cash. You know what I am talking about. So there is some truth to the fact expensive jewlery, cash, cars, homes, vacations "somehow" makes a women horny.
I know of countless women that have their "little friend" in the end table drawer or others with fantasies , or others who talk about alot.
I just dont buy the bull about "If you do this for me I will get horny crap".
This drug is really needed ...especially for those couples...mostly the men that are in a sexless marriage.
Maybe if women lost some weight so they could feel "sexy" to themselves they might have an increased libido.
good grief
I know it really doesnt make them horny , but the fact of the matter is those "things" will certainly motivate her to jump in bed all of a sudden.
Whereas the good father and husband tries to be romantic and pays attention to her and ... finishes the "honey-do" list and still gets a rejected... or even ends up in a sexless marriage. I hope they do find a pill for women the number of special custom requirements for a women to have sex is ridiculous really...
Here's something that I can speak of with some personal knowledge. I have been very satisfied with my second wife of 6 years looks, sexual energy and frequency. And then bang.....one day she wakes up at the age of 52 and the old "change of life" wheels have begun to turn. Hot flashes, cold sweats, mood swings and a loss of desire. And this can last for years. Once again, it's not their fault, it's just a fact of life and something that happens in life and I'll ride out the storm with my beauiful woman but in the meantime like so many other men I go on thinking about sex 24/7!
That was seriously a bunch of idiotic nonsense.
The point is that if men (again, not all men) would get off the couch and HELP your girlfriends or wives with some of the MOUNTAINS of crap you thoughtlessly pile on them (cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, child care, etc) instead of creating more work for them, they might not be so darn tired, and they might actually be interested in having sex with you.
Generally, when a woman is in her 40's, sexual desire changes due to MENOPAUSE you idiot, not domestic duties.
If you want a skank from the internet, then go ahead and pay her to get your rocks off and then your wife or girlfriend in that sexless marriage of yours won't have to worry about you pawing at her all the time.
Why must men continuously confuse appreciation with horniness? Buying me a diamond doesn't make me horny, it makes me appreciative. And the truth is, not everyone has the money for expensive things, but I'm pretty sure poor people don't refrain from having sex because they're poor.
What's your point about having our "little friend" in the nightstand drawer. Are we supposed to have them, or not supposed to have them? Or are you just angry because "gasp" we don't need you to help us get off?
If being in a sexless marriage bothers the man so much, then he should do what ever other man in the world would do - either cheat on her, divorce her, or actually try to figure out what the issue it.
Thank you for solving the problem we have wrestled with since the beginning of time. If all fat people became skinny, people would be doing it like rabbits on the street corners. Come one girls, lets just go to the gym and loose weight - that will solve all our problems in life.
You are the poster child for why women don't want to have sex as much as men.
And you are the poster child d-bag why men stop having sex with their partners.
The point is many men DO infact help out with the chores and maybe they are appreciated but thats as far as that goes. Maybe some of those men sitting on the couch have it right...dammed if you do and dammed if you dont. Funny how some women tend to leave the fact out that the husband also works all day and does his "manly" chores lawn, maintance etc and then helps her out...
Great then the pill will be helpful douchebag. So tell us where does that put the good husband having to forego possibly years or even for the remainder of the marriage without sex again?
The point is many many women dont seem to have a problem f'ing for cash or a expensive home etc....but again the average husband has the still run through hoops to get his wife to be receptive. Maybe husbands should just fork over a handful of cash.
I could give a crap if they have them or not. The point being douchebag is her "little friend" doesnt do any of those chores....yet she will have the libido to play with her friend. But the husband is still required to do the chores. So again why is doing chores a requirement for sex? Certainly its a nice to do, sex or not, but I dont see the correlation.
They do....and women do it as well.
Smoke another joint would you? Holy crap.... But its true in many cases ...a the women gains weight and she no longer feels sexy enough to have sex with her mate....also this is where the mate usually refrains from sex as he no longer finds her sexy as well.
And you are the poster child d-bag why men stop having sex with their partners.
I thought we were talking about women not having sex with their partners, not vice versa.
The point is many men DO infact help out with the chores and maybe they are appreciated but thats as far as that goes. Maybe some of those men sitting on the couch have it right...dammed if you do and dammed if you dont. Funny how some women tend to leave the fact out that the husband also works all day and does his "manly" chores lawn, maintance etc and then helps her out...
Haha...sorry for the wakeup call, but most men do not help. Most women work 40 hour weeks and still come home to another several hours worth of work while their husbands come home and sit on their behinds because they worked all day. Get a clue. It's not the 1950's anymore. Women work. When both people in the relationship work full-time, then housework, shopping, etc. is not simply a woman's job anymore. The hour that you spend mowing the lawn once a week does not absolve you of all other responsibilities. I'm going to try that when I go home tonight. "Well, I did a load of laundry, I'm done for the night."
Great then the pill will be helpful douchebag. So tell us where does that put the good husband having to forego possibly years or even for the remainder of the marriage without sex again?
Oh, poor "good" little hubby. Sorry, don't feel bad for you. We're the ones that have to experience the hell that I've heard is menopause. Do you think women LIKE feeling like that? I'm sure they don't. Although, not being near menopause myself, I suppose I can't speak for all post menopausal women.
The point is many many women dont seem to have a problem f'ing for cash or a expensive home etc....but again the average husband has the still run through hoops to get his wife to be receptive. Maybe husbands should just fork over a handful of cash.
You're missing the entire point. People who accept money for sex are having sex with you solely for that reason - as long as you pay them, they don't give a crap about you. Married people are supposed to have sex because they love and care for one another, and are physically attracted to each other. If all you care about is meaningless sex, then by all means, go ahead and pay someone for it. If you want meaningful sex with your partner, then the two of you need to sit down and work through whatever is going on making her not want to have sex. I'm willing to bet that getting older and fatter isn't the only reason. The quality of women that accept money and gifts for sex is obviously not what you're looking for, or else you wouldn't be with your significant other anymore at all.
I could give a crap if they have them or not. The point being douchebag is her "little friend" doesn't do any of those chores....yet she will have the libido to play with her friend. But the husband is still required to do the chores. So again why is doing chores a requirement for sex? Certainly its a nice to do, sex or not, but I dont see the correlation.
I can attest that my little friend takes less than 2 minutes to get me where I need to be. Sex with hubby usually takes A LOT longer. If you're tired from running your behind all over the place all day working, etc, generally, 2 minutes is what you're going to opt for so you can go to sleep. Perfect example - last night hubby gave the kid a bath while I cooked, he took out the trash while I put the kid to bed, and when we were both done, we both had a lot more energy for "fun time" - and included the little friend! Now, I'm sure that's more detail than what you wanted to know, but it demonstrates the point I'm trying to make.
They do....and women do it as well.
Have to agree with you on that one. Women cheat too.
Smoke another joint would you? Holy crap....
Trust me, if i was allowed to smoke joints at work, I would.
But its true in many cases ...a the women gains weight and she no longer feels sexy enough to have sex with her mate....also this is where the mate usually refrains from sex as he no longer finds her sexy as well.
This goes both ways. Men can gain weight and become unattractive to their mates as well. At that point, you need to sit down and have an honest conversation about it (kindly). It may hurt her feelings, but in the long run, I'd rather have my husband tell me honestly, and help get me motivated to do something about it. I'd definitely be mad for a bit, but common sense would prevail and show me that he's right. My husband and I have both put on a bit of weight over the last few years, and we talked about it, and started walking at night as a family, swimming, etc - together.
You are correct that your perception of your physical appearance does have a significant impact on your self-confidence, which, in turn, has an impact on your sexual desires. However, I know of several overweight people that have very healthy sex lives. Your earlier comment made it sound like losing weight is a cure all for all issues with a couple in their sexual relationship.
There are some medical issues that can cause libido issues in women for sure, however, I believe that the majority of these types of issues have a deeper root cause. Women are emotional creatures, and men are visual creatures. Although men may think it's all "emotional BS", that doesn't take away from the fact that the woman doesn't think it's emotional BS. And until she thinks differently, you're not going to get anything from her. So, I'd say that men need to take the time to figure out what's causing the issue. There is no "magic pill" that's going to fix those issues, except of course, maybe Valium.
Hubby and I had a "dry spell" because I was too darn tired after all was said and done at night to even care. We talked (and yelled) about it, and both made changes in our lives and habits, came to a compromise, and got it worked out, without any "magic pills".
Women want the emotional side to sex and men want the physical side of sex. If your lady isn't into sex, try a hooker. They are like men and enjoy the physical side. Having sex to get off. For the best results, marry a hooker.
The shotgun marketing from viagra sellers is a national disgrace!! These are low life companies with no morals that follow their peckers around and pretend to be human!
Hey all, I have given my wife a small dosage of Viagra on several ocassions...(5-10mg)...and every time she is, well more responsive, wanting and just plain hotter than normal. I've shared this with buddies of mine and 2 of 3 of them have idnicated they and ehir wives have done well with this also. All I can say is that when she does take this small amount...every time I get the good, dirty sex.
I've been wathcing these tests with interest myself and have been baffled that their results have been inconclusive. If you have some 'V' have her try it (not a full dose, small amount)....you'll probably see what I mean as she'll ...and not to get too graphic...willl, ummm...demonstrate more psyiological traits of a women fully turned on.
I won't even try to explain the scientific invalidity of testknight's "experiment." Not that it couldn't work some of the time for some people, but it is far from a scientific study.
In my opinion, the best female viagra is a man doing dishes!
Why ??
I tend to agree with the men who have discovered that a nice little check-in throughout the day creates a raging stream when the night falls.
Female viagra is called cash or a big check book.Sorry gal's but from experience that is what it seems like.I know there are a few good ones out there and i'd like to be lucky enough to meet one.
I think this is nature's way of continuing the species. Think about it: if a woman could get an orgams by taking a pill, there are going to be a LOT of frustrated straight guys out there.
On the other hand, it could go a long way toward population control. Our planet is over-crowded as it is.