There needs to be very careful interpretation of bulling, not every disagreement or heated discussion is bulling and there is different ways to deal with it when it does happen. Our young people need to learn to effectively deal with this as part of the lessons of life, that life is rarely easy often cruel, teaching them to deal with it will serve them all their lives, hiding behind someones protection every time faced with it allows the idea there will be someone there when most often there won't be