Jennifer Wild, a clinical psychologist at the Institute of Psychiatry at King's College London, said the toughest psychological issues for the survivors of the shooting spree and those closest to the bombing would be guilt, loss and fear.
I believe an inability to trust will be the hardest issue to overcome for many of these victims of the island shooting. The horrendous betrayal felt in trusting a supposed "police officer" who is offering safety and help, and who then proceeds to spend an hour and a half harming those who trusted him, is not something that a person can easily "get over". This monster was "hunting" down and killing every victim he could find on the tiny island, which offered nowhere to hide and little opportunity for escape, as even in the water victims were hunted down and shot. The incredible vulnerability and prolonged terror will stay with many victims for a very long time...probably for their entire lives, and will lead to panic, fear, and an inability to feel safe whenever a particular situation triggers these memories/feelings of terror. Many times they may not even realize their panic or fear is the result of some unrecognized trigger, as it can be anything and sometimes is not even understood to be related to the traumatic event. In my opinion, most of these young kids will have a long road ahead in trying to recover from this horror. My heart goes out to all the victims and family members...they are in my thoughts and prayers.
Also, I am not sure I agree with those quoted who state that victims should be left alone for a while and wait to see who may need help. One thing I can tell you is some trauma victims will avoid talking about the incident and avoid anything that reminds them of it...they may fear even thinking about it, and they can go into a shell and become very isolated in their pain. For some, having someone offering help and acknowledging that they have been in a very abnormal situation that they DESERVE help with, is very helpful.
Also, I wanted to add, the best and most helpful thing that can be done for these victims is to give constant comfort, understanding, and support, and keep them in environments that they can feel as safe as possible in. Allow them to talk about the trauma as much, or as little, as they want. If they want to go over and over the same incident/moment/feelings, etc. many times, just keep listening and paying attention and offering validation and comfort, as many times as it takes...even if the same conversation takes place a hundred times over several years. This is how they work through the memory and feelings that come with it. Do not ever attempt to change the subject or tell the victim they need to move on, or insist that they already discussed this, etc...and do not ever try to suggest they should feel differently or discredit or minimize what they are feeling. Offer help in any way the victim wants to be helped... some may need to vent anger and some may want you to help them express their pain/grief/etc. in some way to be validated. Familys and friends should be counseled in how to just "be with" the victims, and open to assisting in any way the victim feels they need.
Ah... welcome to the warm, fuzzy world of crisis intervention. You know WHAT to do... but WHEN.... the particulars?
After thinking on that a moment... why bash these people? They are trying. Why not LISTEN to what changes need made for better assistance? This second didn't apply to you KJR... I think you know a little about the world, but not all. At least enough to sound sane (no pun intended).
well, it seems the "professional" KJR has weighed in. i couldn't disagree more KJR, humans are very resilient and need time to adjust to what has happened on their own. some will need extra help and some will just move on. all will bear the scars of what happened regardless of whether or not they got "professional" help. humans have suffered trauma from the begining of time and endured without "help".
I am entitled to my opinion...do you have a problem with that? My "professional" status is in the healthcare delivery system, but I do not claim to be a psychiatrist...my opinions and feelings come from knowledge through real experiences. If you look at statistics for our returning service men and women, the "experts" are now realizing how great a percentage of our soldiers do require some help and mental health services for the trauma of war they have experienced, with some resulting PTSD and/or related effects...and these are adults who were well trained for the battlefield...armed with weapons for self defense, and organized in groups with support and strategies as they confronted the "enemy". Here in the island horror being discussed, these were young kids who were at camp on vacation, and suddenly found themselves hunted down by a man who they thought was a policeman, and who called them over to offer to help and protect them...and then for a prolonged hour and a half they had to try to survive, without any sense or reason to what was occuring, nor anywhere to escape. They not only watched their young friends and family members executed in cold blood...they laid under their dead and dying bodies for protection. I think this is an unusal and rarely seen situation in the area of trauma cases. It is a known fact that some people, over a period of years, may turn to illegal drugs/alcohol in an attempt to quell the mental and emotional pain they cannot/have not been able to heal or find a healthy understanding of. I see more advantages to monitoring all these kids and giving them needed treatment/support right away. I stand by my earlier post...my humble opinion.
When the expert's baby falls, ans the baby scrapes the knees; what would they first say to the baby?
A humanistic response may be a good consideration; just a causal talk, just caring about what one has gone through, just letting one knowing that "you care."
Humanists offered a few useful contributions. None of it had to do with causality :P. Humanists are as unhelpful as freudians when speaking "pure school" perspective. Please set down the humanist books and move on to cognitive/behavioral and evolutionary texts.
So the police in Norway by taking 90 minutes to respond to the attack were just listening to experts?
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I believe an inability to trust will be the hardest issue to overcome for many of these victims of the island shooting. The horrendous betrayal felt in trusting a supposed "police officer" who is offering safety and help, and who then proceeds to spend an hour and a half harming those who trusted him, is not something that a person can easily "get over". This monster was "hunting" down and killing every victim he could find on the tiny island, which offered nowhere to hide and little opportunity for escape, as even in the water victims were hunted down and shot. The incredible vulnerability and prolonged terror will stay with many victims for a very long time...probably for their entire lives, and will lead to panic, fear, and an inability to feel safe whenever a particular situation triggers these memories/feelings of terror. Many times they may not even realize their panic or fear is the result of some unrecognized trigger, as it can be anything and sometimes is not even understood to be related to the traumatic event. In my opinion, most of these young kids will have a long road ahead in trying to recover from this horror. My heart goes out to all the victims and family members...they are in my thoughts and prayers.
Also, I am not sure I agree with those quoted who state that victims should be left alone for a while and wait to see who may need help. One thing I can tell you is some trauma victims will avoid talking about the incident and avoid anything that reminds them of it...they may fear even thinking about it, and they can go into a shell and become very isolated in their pain. For some, having someone offering help and acknowledging that they have been in a very abnormal situation that they DESERVE help with, is very helpful.
Also, I wanted to add, the best and most helpful thing that can be done for these victims is to give constant comfort, understanding, and support, and keep them in environments that they can feel as safe as possible in. Allow them to talk about the trauma as much, or as little, as they want. If they want to go over and over the same incident/moment/feelings, etc. many times, just keep listening and paying attention and offering validation and comfort, as many times as it takes...even if the same conversation takes place a hundred times over several years. This is how they work through the memory and feelings that come with it. Do not ever attempt to change the subject or tell the victim they need to move on, or insist that they already discussed this, etc...and do not ever try to suggest they should feel differently or discredit or minimize what they are feeling. Offer help in any way the victim wants to be helped... some may need to vent anger and some may want you to help them express their pain/grief/etc. in some way to be validated. Familys and friends should be counseled in how to just "be with" the victims, and open to assisting in any way the victim feels they need.
Ah... welcome to the warm, fuzzy world of crisis intervention. You know WHAT to do... but WHEN.... the particulars?
After thinking on that a moment... why bash these people? They are trying. Why not LISTEN to what changes need made for better assistance? This second didn't apply to you KJR... I think you know a little about the world, but not all. At least enough to sound sane (no pun intended).
well, it seems the "professional" KJR has weighed in. i couldn't disagree more KJR, humans are very resilient and need time to adjust to what has happened on their own. some will need extra help and some will just move on. all will bear the scars of what happened regardless of whether or not they got "professional" help. humans have suffered trauma from the begining of time and endured without "help".
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I am entitled to my opinion...do you have a problem with that? My "professional" status is in the healthcare delivery system, but I do not claim to be a psychiatrist...my opinions and feelings come from knowledge through real experiences. If you look at statistics for our returning service men and women, the "experts" are now realizing how great a percentage of our soldiers do require some help and mental health services for the trauma of war they have experienced, with some resulting PTSD and/or related effects...and these are adults who were well trained for the battlefield...armed with weapons for self defense, and organized in groups with support and strategies as they confronted the "enemy". Here in the island horror being discussed, these were young kids who were at camp on vacation, and suddenly found themselves hunted down by a man who they thought was a policeman, and who called them over to offer to help and protect them...and then for a prolonged hour and a half they had to try to survive, without any sense or reason to what was occuring, nor anywhere to escape. They not only watched their young friends and family members executed in cold blood...they laid under their dead and dying bodies for protection. I think this is an unusal and rarely seen situation in the area of trauma cases. It is a known fact that some people, over a period of years, may turn to illegal drugs/alcohol in an attempt to quell the mental and emotional pain they cannot/have not been able to heal or find a healthy understanding of. I see more advantages to monitoring all these kids and giving them needed treatment/support right away. I stand by my earlier post...my humble opinion.
and i to mine.
When the expert's baby falls, ans the baby scrapes the knees; what would they first say to the baby?
A humanistic response may be a good consideration; just a causal talk, just caring about what one has gone through, just letting one knowing that "you care."
Humanists offered a few useful contributions. None of it had to do with causality :P. Humanists are as unhelpful as freudians when speaking "pure school" perspective. Please set down the humanist books and move on to cognitive/behavioral and evolutionary texts.