"I was quite surprised by the results," said lead author Dr. Hans-Peter Brunner-La Rocca, of University Hospital Basel in Switzerland. "Often we think we know what is best for a patient, but this is often wrong."
Sounds typical for arrogant docs to assume they know what a patient would prefer. And they wonder why some patients are non-compliant with their treatment plan?
We all need better 2-way communication, balanced information, and respect for the patient as a partner in medical decisions.
I've watched too many slow miserable deaths. Give me as much quality as possible and then let me go as quickly as possible and with as little fuss as can be arranged. I am so thankful for the medically assisted end of life allowed in WA. it is a merciful and caring law.
Cool. I did not know you had that in WA. Excellent move. I am in favor of euthanasia myself but our government will never accept it. Too much resistance from right wing radical christians who want to tell people how to live their lives. In a country where we have total separation of church and state, it is feasible to promote these laws. Here, not possible....not for a long time. On a state level it is up to the governor I assume.
Yeah, when I first read the headline my first thought was, "Well duh!" Very very very few people want to die. True, living may hurt but most people are afraid to die because that is an uncertainty. So far no one has come back from the dead and stated that dying isn't frightening and does not hurt. When doctors say that some kinds of death are painless that is pretty much a conjecture. There are no post-death patients that can verify that. (Near death experiences don't count. I mean really once-and-for-all dead not clinically dead for a couple minutes.) The decision of whether to die or not does not have a do-over once death has occurred. Once you're dead there is no coming back to this life because you changed your mind. Most people find the combination of uncertainty and finality too frightening and decide to hang on until the choice is no longer theirs.
Lots of people think they would choose quality until it's time to make the decision.
But the "we can't cure it, so it's not curable" arrogance of allopaths should be upgraded to homicide when their arrogance cost lives.
If your doctor tells you some condition can't be cured, just ignore him/her and look elsewhere fast. Allopaths can't cure much of anything. All they can do is give you toxic drugs that suppress your symptoms while damaging other, healthy organs. Their "medicine" stinks and so do they.
If you go to an allopath for any chronic disease, you just stepped onto a slippery slope. Go for heart disease and they'll give you medicine that soon causes diabetes. Then they'll give you medicine for that condition which will cause kidney disease. Next comes liver disease. All the time, they'll pretend these are separate diseases you've suffered. They'll keep it up until they kill you, pretending innocence every step of the way and never mentioning to you the connections.
Other than war mercenaries, allopathy is the most disgusting way to earn a living that I can imagine. It's nothing short of murder for profit. May they burn in hell where they belong.
I admit that I had to Google "allopath" to help me figure out just what the hell you were talking about. So in other words, you would opt for the guy waving a quartz crystal over your head or prescribing herbs and berries rather than the surgeon with years of experience to cure your heart condition. Got it.
I get your point. I call it the medical conveyor belt. Once you get on it, you are up for grab for a variety of specialties and they like to bounce you around and spread the wealth. If you are young, somewhat healthy and have medical insurance, you have options in terms of fixing certain problems which may increase your longevity or quality of life without making you worst. When you are in the winter of your life, you may be wise to self medicate....BC powder only ..stay thin, watch your blood sugar, your blood pressure. Walk, exercise and eat veggies and fruits....and stay away from the medical community. My opinion. I am in charge of my life and no one would dare mess with me. Funny thing, I have been part of it for decades in various functions. I know what I have seen and it is not for me. I'll die first.....my life, my choice. I am contemplating a tat of the DNR sign on my chest. They never look at charts....when somebody drops...they react. Bad deal.
guy waving a quartz crystal over your head or prescribing herbs and berries rather than the surgeon with years of experience to cure your heart condition.
You've been brainwashed to believe those criminals are the only ones who know anything and that the alternative to them is New Age nonsense.
Really it's not so much a matter of brainwashing as it is oppression by the AMA of any competition. If no other system of medicine is allowed to practice, only one system is recognized.
But let me ask you this. Have you noticed how when we Baby Boomers refused to turn our backs on nutrition, acupuncture, homeopathy, and herbs, allopathic medicine began to try to co-op alternative medicine? I'm in my late 50s and I remember when doctors derided the "silly belief" that diet had anything whatsoever to do with health. The AMA forbid any doctor to promote such a belief, just like at one point they forbid any doctor to wash their hands between patients.
The fact that you had to look up the word "allopath" shows just how vulnerable you are to those monsters.
Allopaths have nearly killed me 3 times. I'm talking staring death in the face, and in each case it was 100% their fault and 100% due to arrogance. In each case they refused to listen to me, because I was just the ignorant patient and I didn't fit their Merck Manual bible. In each case, I turned out to be right -- almost DEAD right. In each case the result was emergency surgery and loss of or damage to major organs.
Believe what you want to believe, and God help you. But if you think any allopath cares whether you live or die, you are a fool.
Four tumors in the lower lobe of my left lung, the pulmonary oncologist nearly dancing as he wrote out his plan for the slash-and-burn protocol that would make a few payments on his Mercedes. My massage therapist reassuring me by telling me how her brother had chemo and one lung removed and he lived and can even hold a job. Peter Jennings and Dana Reeves dying of lung cancer within weeks of my diagnosis.
I went for the "berries" and homeopathy. Today, 10 years later, zero tumors. No chemo, no surgery, no allopathic treatment whatsoever except scans to be sure my tumors were really gone.
And you want to know the really interesting part? Since then, when an allopath has taken my medical history and I tell them this, they don't even raise an eyebrow. They know damn well that even lung cancer can be successfully treated with alternative medicine, and probably a good percentage of them would choose it for themselves over slash-and-burn.
Do yourself a favor and educate yourself about those berries, buddy.
My experience has been exactly the opposite with my parents and mother-in-law. The doctors were not at all concerned with quality of life, just longevity. We lost my MIL on Nov. 7th because she was a DNR and told us she was ready to go. Two days earlier her cardiologist told her he could prolong her life to age 100, she was 86 and had had more than enough. Her response to him was, "What the hell would I want to do that for?". She did not want to be dependent on us or anyone else for her care. We are grateful she went quickly and her pain was managed.
Most physicians are more concerned with longevity than quality of life. Typical comment from the guy who wanted your mother in law to make it to hundred. A joke ? not really. Glad that lady stood by her guns and made her choice. That's the way it should be. I have seen very old and debilitated patients get a feeding tube as they lived in a nursing home simply because the family was not "ready" to let them go. That should be illegal. There do not care about them...that much....they never see them.....but they want the state to absorb the expenses. These people are in a vegetative state and never get better. It takes them longer to die since they are fed via the tube. These expenses drain the medicare system for no good reason. I would ask the surgeon why did he not refuse to put a feeding tube...his response......somebody else will do it, may as well be me. It paid his bills. There are many situations like this......waste, confusion, ignorance and greed.
My mother died gasping for breath, completely out of her mind, in a nursing home, after many months of slow and miserable deterioration. She had a pacemaker, implanted to increase the action of one chamber of her heart. I have coronary artery disease and two stents as well as a lot of other problems. If I can't have a minimum quality of life, I will make my final exit at my choosing. I have a living will called "five wishes" and it forbids my removal from my house if I am not the one who called for assistance. In addition, I cannot be fed or given fluids. All that is permitted is keeping me clean and comfortable while I die. I even specify 6 minutes as the maximum for resuscitation in the event I am hospitalized and start to die. No machines or other heroic methods allowed. When my time comes, just let me go.
I agree with you. You are wise. Why the 6 minutes ? DNR is essentially...hands-off. I would drop these 6 minutes....no one would follow the request anyway. They may pump on your chest for longer than 6 minutes.....time flies during a code.
I got the impression that this was a "what if" study, not a study where real choices are offered. Were they actually offereing better quality of life versus longer life, or just asking patients what if we could offer it.
In my family, I have known a cancer patient who said no to more chemo because he wanted to enjoy his last days and he was told chemo would add a few months, but not give him a cure or remission. His doctor was shocked when he choose to pack the RV and take off to visit kids and grandkids instead of spending his last days sick from yet another round of chemo. Another relative demanded doctors operate to fix a broken hip anyway when they told him to resign himself to life in a wheelchair because his chances of surviving the surgery were poor. He said he would take his chances if it meant being able to walk and be independent.
Basically, it comes down to no matter what some survey says, each person is an individual, and doctors need to communicate with patients and respect that.
yes indeed but doctors are usually not good at accepting the inevitable. They like to be in control and tell you what your options are and love to assist you with making up your mind....no always in your favor. People have to be firm with their decisions and know what they will accept and what they will not tolerate. The doctor can just accept our decisions and move on to the next patient. We are in charge of our lives. Doctors are not....keep that in mind.
Everyone wants to go to Heaven but no one wants to leave right now. A person is lucky if he has not been so sick that he wouldn't care if he died as long as the suffering ceased.
If you are comfortable with your spirituality...and I don't mean some organized religion, I mean being connected to nature and the universe, you have no fear of death but you value quality of life vs quantity. You want to be in good shape and not vegetate at the mercy of pharmaceuticals, machines and people. That extension of life benefits no one...except the pharma companies. They profit plenty and they take from medicaire ten fold. Rip off and it is legal. Go gracefully with your pride ! don't wait until the end never comes....gag.
We may not want to be like Woody Allen.....when someone asked him how he felt about death...his answer : I am against it. I believe he really feels that way. Not surprised somehow.....
Contrary to what the article said, I'm living proof that heart failure is NOT always incurable or fatal.
I suffered congestive heart failure last year, and had to have my aortic valve replaced. The doctors said I was in such bad shape I might not survive the surgery, but I did and a year later my cardiologist is amazed!
He said my heart is back to being as good as it was the day I was born, and there's no signs of any heart damage!.
Thanks be to God, good cardiologists, good surgeons, and cardiac medicenes plus good theraphists to help me recover!
Now I feel better than I've felt in years, and I exercise every other day and have resumed an active life-style!
When you are younger and healthy and are asked the question - sure people will say "Quality" but when it actually really is a decision where the consequences are right in front of you very often the choice changes because even if pain many people would still like to see their children, family and friends for as much time as possible even if you aren't feeling all that well...
Quote: "We should discuss all stages of heart failure to make them aware that at its end stage, their life will likely shorten," he said. Unquote. Say, Doc...Did you just tell me that at the END of my Life...my Life will be shorter? Does this mean that I won't live any longer after I'm dead? WOW ! (now THAT is a BIG SURPRISE to me....) Goodness Gracious..........
Scientists are so wrapped up in their 'sciences' they haven't come to the simple realization that no one chooses to 'go gently into that good night' if there's ANY other choice on the table. If humans were prone to what science thinks is rational thinking, they would have become extinct aeons ago. Anyone who doesn't believe this is under 50 or that brave 1%.
umm dotcom it is rational thinking that has propelled the human species to the top of the food chain. People who dont think rationally usually end up in jail or get themselves and many innocent others killed with them.
Hmm i suspect this survey was severely flawed, most people prefer to live with a minimum of suffering, they were probably asking the questions to senile people who dont know what they are saying. I myself would prefer a short life free of suffering.
Swiss researchers who surveyed more than 500 elderly heart failure patients found three quarters wouldn't trade a longer life with symptoms for a shorter life without them
Doesn't this contradict the whole story???
Shouldn't it read "would trade a longer life with symptoms"???
I think I would prefer quality of life over quantity. Weird results!
The most teling line of this story is:
"I was quite surprised by the results," said lead author Dr. Hans-Peter Brunner-La Rocca, of University Hospital Basel in Switzerland. "Often we think we know what is best for a patient, but this is often wrong."
Sounds typical for arrogant docs to assume they know what a patient would prefer. And they wonder why some patients are non-compliant with their treatment plan?
We all need better 2-way communication, balanced information, and respect for the patient as a partner in medical decisions.
most people do.
I've watched too many slow miserable deaths. Give me as much quality as possible and then let me go as quickly as possible and with as little fuss as can be arranged. I am so thankful for the medically assisted end of life allowed in WA. it is a merciful and caring law.
Cool. I did not know you had that in WA. Excellent move. I am in favor of euthanasia myself but our government will never accept it. Too much resistance from right wing radical christians who want to tell people how to live their lives. In a country where we have total separation of church and state, it is feasible to promote these laws. Here, not possible....not for a long time. On a state level it is up to the governor I assume.
People want to live. Doctors surprised. Film at 11.
Yeah, when I first read the headline my first thought was, "Well duh!" Very very very few people want to die. True, living may hurt but most people are afraid to die because that is an uncertainty. So far no one has come back from the dead and stated that dying isn't frightening and does not hurt. When doctors say that some kinds of death are painless that is pretty much a conjecture. There are no post-death patients that can verify that. (Near death experiences don't count. I mean really once-and-for-all dead not clinically dead for a couple minutes.) The decision of whether to die or not does not have a do-over once death has occurred. Once you're dead there is no coming back to this life because you changed your mind. Most people find the combination of uncertainty and finality too frightening and decide to hang on until the choice is no longer theirs.
Lots of people think they would choose quality until it's time to make the decision.
But the "we can't cure it, so it's not curable" arrogance of allopaths should be upgraded to homicide when their arrogance cost lives.
If your doctor tells you some condition can't be cured, just ignore him/her and look elsewhere fast. Allopaths can't cure much of anything. All they can do is give you toxic drugs that suppress your symptoms while damaging other, healthy organs. Their "medicine" stinks and so do they.
If you go to an allopath for any chronic disease, you just stepped onto a slippery slope. Go for heart disease and they'll give you medicine that soon causes diabetes. Then they'll give you medicine for that condition which will cause kidney disease. Next comes liver disease. All the time, they'll pretend these are separate diseases you've suffered. They'll keep it up until they kill you, pretending innocence every step of the way and never mentioning to you the connections.
Other than war mercenaries, allopathy is the most disgusting way to earn a living that I can imagine. It's nothing short of murder for profit. May they burn in hell where they belong.
I admit that I had to Google "allopath" to help me figure out just what the hell you were talking about. So in other words, you would opt for the guy waving a quartz crystal over your head or prescribing herbs and berries rather than the surgeon with years of experience to cure your heart condition. Got it.
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I get your point. I call it the medical conveyor belt. Once you get on it, you are up for grab for a variety of specialties and they like to bounce you around and spread the wealth. If you are young, somewhat healthy and have medical insurance, you have options in terms of fixing certain problems which may increase your longevity or quality of life without making you worst. When you are in the winter of your life, you may be wise to self medicate....BC powder only ..stay thin, watch your blood sugar, your blood pressure. Walk, exercise and eat veggies and fruits....and stay away from the medical community. My opinion. I am in charge of my life and no one would dare mess with me. Funny thing, I have been part of it for decades in various functions. I know what I have seen and it is not for me. I'll die first.....my life, my choice. I am contemplating a tat of the DNR sign on my chest. They never look at charts....when somebody drops...they react. Bad deal.
You've been brainwashed to believe those criminals are the only ones who know anything and that the alternative to them is New Age nonsense.
Really it's not so much a matter of brainwashing as it is oppression by the AMA of any competition. If no other system of medicine is allowed to practice, only one system is recognized.
But let me ask you this. Have you noticed how when we Baby Boomers refused to turn our backs on nutrition, acupuncture, homeopathy, and herbs, allopathic medicine began to try to co-op alternative medicine? I'm in my late 50s and I remember when doctors derided the "silly belief" that diet had anything whatsoever to do with health. The AMA forbid any doctor to promote such a belief, just like at one point they forbid any doctor to wash their hands between patients.
The fact that you had to look up the word "allopath" shows just how vulnerable you are to those monsters.
Allopaths have nearly killed me 3 times. I'm talking staring death in the face, and in each case it was 100% their fault and 100% due to arrogance. In each case they refused to listen to me, because I was just the ignorant patient and I didn't fit their Merck Manual bible. In each case, I turned out to be right -- almost DEAD right. In each case the result was emergency surgery and loss of or damage to major organs.
Believe what you want to believe, and God help you. But if you think any allopath cares whether you live or die, you are a fool.
And by the way... those berries you sneer about?
Four tumors in the lower lobe of my left lung, the pulmonary oncologist nearly dancing as he wrote out his plan for the slash-and-burn protocol that would make a few payments on his Mercedes. My massage therapist reassuring me by telling me how her brother had chemo and one lung removed and he lived and can even hold a job. Peter Jennings and Dana Reeves dying of lung cancer within weeks of my diagnosis.
I went for the "berries" and homeopathy. Today, 10 years later, zero tumors. No chemo, no surgery, no allopathic treatment whatsoever except scans to be sure my tumors were really gone.
And you want to know the really interesting part? Since then, when an allopath has taken my medical history and I tell them this, they don't even raise an eyebrow. They know damn well that even lung cancer can be successfully treated with alternative medicine, and probably a good percentage of them would choose it for themselves over slash-and-burn.
Do yourself a favor and educate yourself about those berries, buddy.
Are you in the berries biz?
No. I'm a day trader.
Didn't expect that, did you, Spud?
Duh!
Death twitches my ear."Live," he says, "I am coming." Virgil 70-19 B.C.
Go figure.
My experience has been exactly the opposite with my parents and mother-in-law. The doctors were not at all concerned with quality of life, just longevity. We lost my MIL on Nov. 7th because she was a DNR and told us she was ready to go. Two days earlier her cardiologist told her he could prolong her life to age 100, she was 86 and had had more than enough. Her response to him was, "What the hell would I want to do that for?". She did not want to be dependent on us or anyone else for her care. We are grateful she went quickly and her pain was managed.
Most physicians are more concerned with longevity than quality of life. Typical comment from the guy who wanted your mother in law to make it to hundred. A joke ? not really. Glad that lady stood by her guns and made her choice. That's the way it should be. I have seen very old and debilitated patients get a feeding tube as they lived in a nursing home simply because the family was not "ready" to let them go. That should be illegal. There do not care about them...that much....they never see them.....but they want the state to absorb the expenses. These people are in a vegetative state and never get better. It takes them longer to die since they are fed via the tube. These expenses drain the medicare system for no good reason. I would ask the surgeon why did he not refuse to put a feeding tube...his response......somebody else will do it, may as well be me. It paid his bills. There are many situations like this......waste, confusion, ignorance and greed.
My mother died gasping for breath, completely out of her mind, in a nursing home, after many months of slow and miserable deterioration. She had a pacemaker, implanted to increase the action of one chamber of her heart. I have coronary artery disease and two stents as well as a lot of other problems. If I can't have a minimum quality of life, I will make my final exit at my choosing. I have a living will called "five wishes" and it forbids my removal from my house if I am not the one who called for assistance. In addition, I cannot be fed or given fluids. All that is permitted is keeping me clean and comfortable while I die. I even specify 6 minutes as the maximum for resuscitation in the event I am hospitalized and start to die. No machines or other heroic methods allowed. When my time comes, just let me go.
I agree with you. You are wise. Why the 6 minutes ? DNR is essentially...hands-off. I would drop these 6 minutes....no one would follow the request anyway. They may pump on your chest for longer than 6 minutes.....time flies during a code.
I got the impression that this was a "what if" study, not a study where real choices are offered. Were they actually offereing better quality of life versus longer life, or just asking patients what if we could offer it.
In my family, I have known a cancer patient who said no to more chemo because he wanted to enjoy his last days and he was told chemo would add a few months, but not give him a cure or remission. His doctor was shocked when he choose to pack the RV and take off to visit kids and grandkids instead of spending his last days sick from yet another round of chemo. Another relative demanded doctors operate to fix a broken hip anyway when they told him to resign himself to life in a wheelchair because his chances of surviving the surgery were poor. He said he would take his chances if it meant being able to walk and be independent.
Basically, it comes down to no matter what some survey says, each person is an individual, and doctors need to communicate with patients and respect that.
yes indeed but doctors are usually not good at accepting the inevitable. They like to be in control and tell you what your options are and love to assist you with making up your mind....no always in your favor. People have to be firm with their decisions and know what they will accept and what they will not tolerate. The doctor can just accept our decisions and move on to the next patient. We are in charge of our lives. Doctors are not....keep that in mind.
Wow, death is inevitable, regardless. I'd opt for quality while I'm here. Who wants to exist in suffering???
You'd be surprised.
Everyone wants to go to Heaven but no one wants to leave right now. A person is lucky if he has not been so sick that he wouldn't care if he died as long as the suffering ceased.
If you are comfortable with your spirituality...and I don't mean some organized religion, I mean being connected to nature and the universe, you have no fear of death but you value quality of life vs quantity. You want to be in good shape and not vegetate at the mercy of pharmaceuticals, machines and people. That extension of life benefits no one...except the pharma companies. They profit plenty and they take from medicaire ten fold. Rip off and it is legal. Go gracefully with your pride ! don't wait until the end never comes....gag.
We may not want to be like Woody Allen.....when someone asked him how he felt about death...his answer : I am against it. I believe he really feels that way. Not surprised somehow.....
Woody Allen also said something to this effect: Some want to achieve immortality though their works; I want to achieve it by not dying.
Any day above ground is a good day.
You must be kidding. Either that or you have never watched someone die a slow, agonizing death.
When my creator decides it is time to come home...I will go...with pleasure!!!
Contrary to what the article said, I'm living proof that heart failure is NOT always incurable or fatal.
I suffered congestive heart failure last year, and had to have my aortic valve replaced. The doctors said I was in such bad shape I might not survive the surgery, but I did and a year later my cardiologist is amazed!
He said my heart is back to being as good as it was the day I was born, and there's no signs of any heart damage!.
Thanks be to God, good cardiologists, good surgeons, and cardiac medicenes plus good theraphists to help me recover!
Now I feel better than I've felt in years, and I exercise every other day and have resumed an active life-style!
The results make sense to me.
When you are younger and healthy and are asked the question - sure people will say "Quality" but when it actually really is a decision where the consequences are right in front of you very often the choice changes because even if pain many people would still like to see their children, family and friends for as much time as possible even if you aren't feeling all that well...
If I don't live to 120, I'm suing
And if I can't take it with me, I'm not going!
Quote: "We should discuss all stages of heart failure to make them aware that at its end stage, their life will likely shorten," he said. Unquote. Say, Doc...Did you just tell me that at the END of my Life...my Life will be shorter? Does this mean that I won't live any longer after I'm dead? WOW ! (now THAT is a BIG SURPRISE to me....) Goodness Gracious..........
Scientists are so wrapped up in their 'sciences' they haven't come to the simple realization that no one chooses to 'go gently into that good night' if there's ANY other choice on the table. If humans were prone to what science thinks is rational thinking, they would have become extinct aeons ago. Anyone who doesn't believe this is under 50 or that brave 1%.
umm dotcom it is rational thinking that has propelled the human species to the top of the food chain. People who dont think rationally usually end up in jail or get themselves and many innocent others killed with them.
Hmm i suspect this survey was severely flawed, most people prefer to live with a minimum of suffering, they were probably asking the questions to senile people who dont know what they are saying. I myself would prefer a short life free of suffering.
Doesn't this contradict the whole story???
Shouldn't it read "would trade a longer life with symptoms"???